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what can i do


Question Posted Monday February 2 2009, 11:06 am

me and my boyfriend have beeen together 18 months now.. we were soo amazing at first, but as you know things change as relationships go along. Ive heard things, two times, about him sleeping next to another girl at a party.. which i really dont know if i believe or not, no proof. and when he kissed a girl at a party, he told me right away.. anyways, i chose to take him back.. that was awhile ago. Now, i have caught him lying, when he has been hanging out with his best friend, whoi hate, and he hates me, cause his friend fucks around all the time on my stupid best friend, who stays with him. Anyways, i always fight with him. I have no trust.. but i want to give it all one last try, next time i hear something or told a lie by him, im leaving. But.. i fight with him, constantly get angry about shit... what can i do, to honestly just keep that all out of the way right now, or work on it. i just wanna give one last try, cause really.. he is a good guy besides that stuff he treats me good.. cept that typical guy shit.


but ya any advice or experience of the same situation and what you did?

thanksss : )


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AshNicole...x3 answered Tuesday February 3 2009, 8:41 pm:
maybe you two could try this, like forget the past..well not forget it, but move on and stop dwelling on it. it'd really help you two if you guys didn't hold a grudge against each other.

well, you said you don't have any trust in your boyfriend. in my opinion, trust is one of the fundamentals of a relationship. you absolutely need trust to make things work.

if you get angry about stuff real easily, maybe you should turn off your phone until you calm down about things. then maybe you and your boyfriend can calmly talk about things, instead of lashing out on each other ya know?

this worked for me and my boyfriend, so i hope it helps you!

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