Ok so i recently had sex with a jerk who i don't talk to anymore now i am still sort of interested in my very first love he goes to high school with me but is a freshmen because he failed but he has always been thier for me and did love me at one time i would like to have him back in my life but of course he has new girls and has moved on also so should i send him a myspace message because i don't have his cell anymore and tell him how i feel and see if we could rekindle what we had or should i not and just let it be
sassynena answered Monday February 2 2009, 9:36 pm: hello. well, i dont think you should rush anything honestly.
i know how you feel thou!
so what i would do is just send him a message on myspace, bt like a friendly one, and see whats up. ya know? then when you guys start talking a little more tell him how u feel..
KaylaHutchinson answered Monday February 2 2009, 9:11 pm: Well, in my opinion, I think you should.
If it were me, I would. Although it'd be VERY hard. But what's the worse that can happen? Rejection?
Just be confident and tell him exactly how you feel.
THINKPOSITIVE7 answered Monday February 2 2009, 7:33 pm: Hello,Absolutley I think you should send him a message to tell him exact;y how you feel,after all he will never know how you feel until you tell him,you guys had strong feelings for eachother previously so most likely those feelings still there but maybe in a smal amount. You never know what could happen,its always worth a shot especially when it is something you really want.You should always try just to see the outsome because later in you may end uo wondering what if I would have sent him that message what would have happened, It eases your mind alittle when you let someone know how you feel and let them do with it what they will. You guys could end up together or just good friends. Make sure you explain exactly how you feel so he will have a good idea of how you feel exactly.Communication is key in any relationshiup and if you cant explain your feelings to him now then you probably wont be able to when you get back into a relaionship,so just be open and honest in the message and I'm sure you will have a good outcome,if he is the right one for you then it will happen but if not you just move on and find someone that really wants to be with you and treat you like the beautiful young lady that you are,you deserve the best never forget that.I hope this helpe and I wish you the best of luck,if you have anymore questions or need advice on this topic or any other topic dont hesitate to contact me,just send a private message and I would be happy to help!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:) [ THINKPOSITIVE7's advice column | Ask THINKPOSITIVE7 A Question ]
itdependsonyoux3 answered Monday February 2 2009, 7:18 pm: Go for it ! reach out to him and tell him how you feel. That you'd like to start talking to him again and see how it goes from there. Trying won't hurt, somehting good can come out of it :] Send him a myspace message, talk to him more and more and get taht comfort level back, first loves never go away, but you can always try to get them back :]
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