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how to break up
how do i break up with someone in a nice way? when im scared to say it to their face?
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The only way to break up with someone without hurting them TOO much, is to be honest and tell them face-to-face. You cannot break up in an impersonal way (email, note, text, etc.) since it is such a personal issue. It is never an easy thing to do, but sometimes life is tough.
My advice is to be honest about why you're breaking up with him/her, without making it seem like the whole thing is his/her fault. Say something along the lines of " I don't want to be in a relationship right now because __________ (fill in the blank)." And honestly, why is it that you want to break up with this person? Is there no spark, are things just not going right between you guys? Whatever it is, say it, but in a nice way. And make sure to say that it is not fair to him/her if you were to continue a one-sided relationship or something like that. Saying something like, "it wouldn't be fair to you," will show that you aren't just looking out for yourself, but for your boy/girlfriend's well-being as well. Whatever you say, do NOT bring up any of his/her faults, or list things they have done to bother or hurt you. Be fair, but also be firm. Good luck!
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write a note say
1. Its not you its me
2. Its not working out
3. I'm sorry i don't want to do this but its not working out I'm sorry
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