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surprise surprise
So me and this guy like eachother I have a feeling he will ask me out on valentines day because he already recently tried but i said i wouldnt just yet. My best friend absolutely doesnt like him for me whatsoever. Shes told me soo many times that she doesnt want us together because hes not right for me and ill get hurt and etc. I listened to what she had to say, considered her advice, but im going to do what i want to do in the end. So lately i have been keeping her out of the loop, i didnt tell her that he told me he likes me or that i told him the same thing. I havnt told her about our conversations or him trying to ask me out or anything happening. One time we talked about if me and him went out and she said shed have to see it to believe me. So i kind of want to surprise her one day, like in school all of a sudden she will just see us together. It will be unexpected and a little shocking considering all the information she hasnt been hearing. She wont be happy and im thinking she will even talk to me less or give me those looks like rolling her eyes. Only thing is..other people might find out before she does because if they see us in the halls and I dont have any classes with her, So shed be even more upset if other people knew before she did. Should i surprise her or does this not sound like a good idea ?
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Well i get what your doing, but it depends on your friend. After all you don't want your best friends super pissed at you do you? being your best friend, she might get pretty mad if she is the last one to know about it. i think it might be smarter for you to just tell her, or if you really want to prove the point to her, than do it. But your the only one who will know if she has the type of personality to get super pissed at you or if it will not really matter to her. But whatever you do, think about it first because losing your best friend over something like that isnt worth it.
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Hello,well comunication in any relationship whether with a friend or with a guy is very importatnt. I am sure your bestfriend is very important to you and she already doesnt want you to be with the guy so if she finds out you are with him,others find out before her,and realize all the information you have been witholding from her then she will be extremely hurt. I am sure you in no way want to hurt your friend right,she was after all just trying to give you advice and help you..she thinks he is horrible for you so that will be a suprise enough,if you are willing to lose her over a guy then you can do that but if you care for her and you two are real,true best friends then you should do nothing of the sort. You should just tell her how you feel and try ti convety to her that you are making the best decison for yourself,if she cant accapt this then maybe she isnt the best friend you thought she was. You know what is best for you and what will make you happy so go with what you want just because she thinks he is horrible doesnt mean you should, I mean she hasnt had the conversations you two have and she just doesnt know him like you know him. I am sure you will make the right decsion just follow your heart:I hope this helped,if you have any further questions I would me more than happy to help,hust send me a private message.I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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