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Pain over my ex starting to come back now that I have a new boyfriend :(
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 1:32 pm
Okay so around August me and my ex boyfriend broke up. He was my first love and after it ended it's taken me a while to get over it. I have never been so hurt in my life. Well now im doing pretty okay without him and I met someone else and now we are dating. He is very cute and sweet and I like him very much. But Now I feel weird about it. I know I am not fully over my ex, I still love him very much but I would never go back with him because too much has changed and I know I should be moving on but im starting to get those feelings I had when we first broke up and now I have my new boyfriend, he doesn't know I feel this way but I find it to be very unfair for him because now I'm having second thoughts of whether or not I should be in a rela...
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lonely and married
Posted Friday February 6 2009, 11:10 am
Well, I have lived in a marriage for 28 years. It has been very rocky since day one. I have learned that my spouse cannot have intimacy. I have known this for some time. We have had counceling(one year) and it was getting better, but now, he is back in is shell again. We have never had intimacy, Only sex sometimes, usually none, and now, none for 3 years. He is a good person, I guess this is why I have stayed. I have left 3 times and go back. I am so so so lonely, I dream of being happy. I dream of being with someone that I can laugh with and cry with. I feel I am to old now, at 52 and female, to be starting over. I guess I feel bad for him. We have nothing in common, and all these years, I have lived the most lonliest life ever. He is a hard worker, but that is all.
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How to ask a guy out
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 9:20 pm
I need to know how to ask this guy out that I really like. The only problem is that he is moving in a couple months. HELP!!!
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NAVY girlfriend
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 8:30 pm
Hi everybody. This is a question for any NAVY girfriends/wives....my boyfrined is in the NAVY, well, at basic and sea school right now, and I know that it's going to keep us physically apart for stretches of time. I love him and I miss him, and just to clarify, I'm not going to leave him because I don't get to see him. Okay, so my question is, how do you girls stay SANE while your boys are gone? How do you get through the seperation? I love and want to marry my current boyfriend, and I know that it's just going to get worse from here,as far as being apart from him because of his career in the NAVY....so how do you do it?
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It hurts me, but I can't let him go:
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 6:59 pm
13/F
Ughh boys... Here's the thing, I am going to try to explain my very cobfusing relationship with Dave in just a few sentences. He likes me (of this I am almost 99% sure) and I like him ALOT. It sounds simple, and it should be, but its not... It started out as friendship, I REALLY opened up to Dave and I learned sooo much about him, and we sort of became something. However, when school started, Dave's friends were really getting on him about it, calling us things like "the couple that isn't dating" and some people even asked me if I was dating him... And I guess this really bugged Dave, because he started ignoring me and it hurt alot. He would ignore me at school, at football games, at friends houses, and he even...
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What does this mean?
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 6:11 pm
So....I've known this guy for 2 years now.The first day I saw him I immediately felt a connection between us.But lately I havents seen him at all.And everytime me and him are with a group af friends he always bothers me and makes fun of me.And Ive been nothing but nice to him since the first day we met.And sometimes (like 30% of the time) he can be sweet to me but we are usually alone.So I wanna know what does this mean?
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omg i fancy hiim :D
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 3:28 pm
alrighty so i like this guuy and hes soo cute (:
he came new a few weeks ago and ever since he noticed me i think... i mean everytime he walks by me he looks at me. thing is im really shy :S
so like today we actually smiled at eachother (:
like we looked at eachother for a long time and then he smiled. did he smile because it would be 'mean' just to look away or becaue he likes me?
I'm really really pessimistic.
so me and my class have dancelessons together and hes there too. i always say hi when we dance together ( we cant choose who to dance with, the girls always move one up and the guys stay where they are)
and he smiles but he ALWAYS smiles so .. :S
i really dont know lOl. i wanna talk ...
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Our status.
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 2:45 pm
15/F
This guy really likes me and has for a few years, but we're just now starting to click. But he's kind of a player and is friends on MySpace with websites of girls in thongs and bikinis and stuff :/
He wants to be my first kiss and all that.
He isn't too attractive; he's sort of starting to grow a beard, he's breaking out, but he's considered cool. He hangs out with that crowd.
I can't tell if I'm attracted to him. I told him that I'm not ready for a kiss or anything but we hold hands and cuddle and stuff. Haaha he's so weird.
But I don't know if he actually wants to GO OUT with me. He hasn't asked or anything yet, but I've sorta been dropping hints about it.
Any advice?
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Though hell and back!
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 1:46 pm
Omg okay! Me and my boyfriend has been off and on for almost two years. .We've broken up and started to see other people! During that time i had sex with this guy whom i had no feelings for but he made me feel wanted at the time soo anyways i was drunk and when i made him stop(like seriously a minute after we started) the condom broke! I tried to be responsible and get the plan B pill and get checked and they said everything was okay! Later me and my boyfriend got back other and i wanted to tell him bout that night so bad but i was so scared of losing him cause i always seem to mess stuff up or do things that could cause me to leave him! I recently went to the doctor to get on birth control and they took all types of test. Well on monday i ...
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Valentine Day
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 1:26 pm
Okay my boyfriend asked me what i wanted to do for valentine day. . .idk what would be a good idea! I dont want him to spend all his money or anything but i dont want to do something cute and get a good present lol! What should i tell him? And What should i get him?
17/F
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Taking Rite decision
Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 2:57 am
I am married, for 5 years but i have spent very little time with my husband. He is always shouting & harassing me. He dont like to take me anywhere outside. He never cares for my feelings. He just want to satisfy himself physically with me. He also wants me to earn & give my salary to him. I have 2 small kids. I came to know, that before our marriage he had married a lady of different religion (Christian) but ended in divorce, He has hided this fact from me , it hurts me a lot. Am very unhappy, and feel miserable, i have lost all interest in life. Please help!
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Getting over someone when you have to see them everyday
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 8:38 pm
Basically, cutting a long story extremely short and leaving out a lot of details, a guy over last September-November pretended to like me so we could sleep together. It didn't start like that exactly, it started as something completely casual and no-strings, but eventually I started wanted more and he pretended he did too, and then he panicked and backed out.
I live with him (at university) and we are in the same friendship group. I have to see him every single day, I look out of the window and see his window, I cannot escape thinking about him, and next year we will be living together with just me him and 3 other people. I can't get out of this without losing my friends. I still like him a little bit but the main thing is I...
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age aint nothing but a number...right?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 7:37 pm
About a month ago, I went to a poetry slam and I met this guy. Me and him had been sitting next to each other and we talked on and off throughout the event. Later on that night, I found him on Myspace and we started talking more and getting to know each other. During the next few weeks, we went from messaging each other on Myspace to texting each other. As more time went on, our texts began to get a bit more flirty. I'm pretty interested in him and I think he might be interested in me, too. We've only talked in person at that one poetry slam, so we decided we wanted to get together to hang out in person sometime soon.
We had things planned out (we were going to hang out after my classes and then we were going to head ...
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Bisexual? :]
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 7:20 pm
Okay so i really don't like lables,
but i'm just curious...
Would you consider yourself Bi,if you like to mess around with another girl and stuff, but you wouldn't neccesarily want to have a serious relationship with one?
because that's exactly how i feel :l.
So does this mean i am,or i'm not?
Or what do you guys think this means?
Thanks<3!
ohh and
16/F
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best friends
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 6:18 pm
15/f
well, for starters i'm in 10th grade and this kid 'cody' is in 12th. right at the beginning of my freshman year i began talkin to him and we ended up becoming really good friends. we're so alike, we have the same favorite color, same music taste, even our names are 2 letters apart. we get along really well and everything like that.
theres only one problem, hes had the same girlfriend for about 2 years, 'brooke'. brooke i guess felt threatened last school year because she used to send me stupid messages on myspace like 'stupid ugly freshman, stay away from my boyfriend.' and threatened to kick my ass (which she got to scared to do in the end :D) but this was waaay before we even knew we liked eachother....
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Crazy Ex Girlfriend
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 5:54 pm
Ok so...I have read a lot of other women's stories about crazy exs and such, and I have to admit that mine is not nearly as intense. Nonetheless, I need advice as to what to do. Here is the story: I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. We are both twenty. He is wonderful and very kind. After we had been dating for about a month some girl tried to friend me on myspace. I friended her seeing that she was his friend and I was trying to meet most of them. She sent me a message saying that he and his ex were "doing things" about a week after I had been down to visit him (we're in a long distance relationship). I didn't confront him about it as i have never had a reason to distrust him. A few weeks after that anothe...
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I don't have a cell, how do we talk????? besides house phone
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 5:51 pm
15/f
so I like this kid and he's the same age as me, he altar serves just like me. we have been talking for about 4 weeks and he is a really cool guy and stuff but he has a gf and I knew it from the start because when we first started to talk he said I would be a cool girl to hangout with. so things have been going great and be is like perfect. just like two weeks ago he told me that he liked me and that he really wanted to hang out. so we've been talking since then and I don't have a cell so I talk on aim and through my friends phone. I really don't know like how to talk to him other than that becz sooner or later my friends aren't gonna let me use there phones. and I don't think it would be a good idea if we talked on the phone b...
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boys suck
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 5:38 pm
15/f okay so i was going out w/ matt for 4 months and during those 4 months we never hung out. only twice... we only hooked up once.. sad i know but he was never allowed out because of his grades. so around like new years my bffs \"bf\" like would have all these parties and so matt was never there because he wasnt allowed to go. so i started to get close to this kid tyler.. like really close.. like we never did anything but we would always be all over eachother and i know its so wrong but i guess i was just like doing that because i could never have that feeling w/ matt. i dont know then i started questioning my relationship w/ matt but then i came to the conclusion thatllike it was just a stupid mistake and that i wasnt thinking ...
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How can I show him I like him?
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 4:55 pm
I've been liking this guy for 2 years now.I've been knowing him for that long too.And I feel lke I love him.I want to tell him how I feel but right when i approach him,i get scared and never get the chance to tell him.So, what I wanna know is how do I show him I like him without me actually telling him I do?
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for my boyfriend
Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 4:43 pm
i'm 17/f and i'd like to do something nice for my boyfriend. not like take him anywhere.. but something very plain & simple to show him how much i love and appreciate him, just because. i made him a cd of all the songs that reminded me of him and then put pictures of us as the case covers and he loved it. also i bought him his favorite movie and watch it with him whenever he wants.
something plain and simple like this, yet will mean a lot to a guy.
any ideas would be appreciated! thanks!
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