So....I've known this guy for 2 years now.The first day I saw him I immediately felt a connection between us.But lately I havents seen him at all.And everytime me and him are with a group af friends he always bothers me and makes fun of me.And Ive been nothing but nice to him since the first day we met.And sometimes (like 30% of the time) he can be sweet to me but we are usually alone.So I wanna know what does this mean?
laynemayhem answered Saturday February 7 2009, 10:36 am: all guys are that way around their friends. mostly because they dont want their friends to know that they are lovey dovey and sweet to a girl. a guys automatic thinking is that he needs to be tough and macho.
dont think anything of it. its nothing personal. but next time you get him alone, tell him its really immature what hes doing. or, turn the tables and say something that might bother him. i dunno. do what you feel is right, but i recommend asking him to cut it out. :)
Boe answered Friday February 6 2009, 12:22 pm: I think he likes you. Guys sometimes don't know how to act in front of friends when they like a girl. How old is this person? You need to just ask him about it. When he is being nice to you, you need to just open the gate and see what it is he is feeling. This way you can get over the wondering, no matter what happens. When he tells you, you need to tell him that it bothers you when he does this thing in front of people. Either way, you will get it out on the table, he either likes you a lot, or not, whatever, it will be over. good luck. [ Boe's advice column | Ask Boe A Question ]
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