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Our status.
15/F
This guy really likes me and has for a few years, but we're just now starting to click. But he's kind of a player and is friends on MySpace with websites of girls in thongs and bikinis and stuff :/
He wants to be my first kiss and all that.
He isn't too attractive; he's sort of starting to grow a beard, he's breaking out, but he's considered cool. He hangs out with that crowd.
I can't tell if I'm attracted to him. I told him that I'm not ready for a kiss or anything but we hold hands and cuddle and stuff. Haaha he's so weird.
But I don't know if he actually wants to GO OUT with me. He hasn't asked or anything yet, but I've sorta been dropping hints about it.
Any advice?
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a first kiss will happen when it happens.
Its ok to not find someone attractive. Dont sell yourself short.
i think its cool that you know your not ready yet and you have told him.
Holding hands, and cuddling is pretty much going ..
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If you are attracted to a guy you will
know it. :)
You don't like this guys myspace habits,
you say he is unattractive. Never go out
with or make out with a guy just because
he is considered "cool".
A hint for you: A guy has no need to "go out"
with a girl who cuddles and stuff without a
commitment. I know its just cuddling but its
a start. If you want cuddles and kisses, wait
for someone who asks you out and who you are
in a committed relationship with. It saves
worry about what his intentions are.
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Do you really even like this guy? You sort of don't sound sure if you do or not. Just because you're "clicking" doesn't mean you really like him. And the fact that he has all that stuff on Myspace shows he either has no respect for women, or he's out to have a lot of sex. No matter what he may say, that's not the way a guy acts when he really likes a girl. Why would he have a need for it if he really cared about the girl he's with.
If you want to give it a shot with him, communicate. Let him know that you don't like his Myspace stuff and would like for him to remove it all and anything else he's up to.
It's good you have not given in to letting him be your first kiss. You will remember you first kiss for the rest of your life. Do you want to remember it being with this guy that had this perv Myspace? Just think about it.
Hope it goes well.
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