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best friends
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well, for starters i'm in 10th grade and this kid 'cody' is in 12th. right at the beginning of my freshman year i began talkin to him and we ended up becoming really good friends. we're so alike, we have the same favorite color, same music taste, even our names are 2 letters apart. we get along really well and everything like that.
theres only one problem, hes had the same girlfriend for about 2 years, 'brooke'. brooke i guess felt threatened last school year because she used to send me stupid messages on myspace like 'stupid ugly freshman, stay away from my boyfriend.' and threatened to kick my ass (which she got to scared to do in the end :D) but this was waaay before we even knew we liked eachother.
well, at the end of freshman year he stopped talking to me and i had NO idea why. i passed his house and i couldnt take it anymore. i texted him and said 'look cody, i dont know why you dont talk to me anymore and it really hurts. ive liked you all this time and its killin me.' and we ended up tellin eachother about our love for eachother.
he broke up with brooke, and around the same time i got in trouble with drugs and was grounded for the summer so i couldnt hang out with him. i told him to wait for me until i was off groundin and that i wanted to be his girlfriend. he said he'd wait. but then, of course, he starts going out with brooke again and i was purely crushed.
now, he sits with me at lunch sometimes and he ended up telling me he still had strong feelings for me. now my hearts hurting again because i want him so much but brooke will always have his heart and i cant trust him because of it.
its been two years now that we've liked eachother and we're still in this shitty situation
i dont know what to do :(
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if hes still hung up on brooke, theres nothing you CAN do. boys that say they're going to wait, but end up dating their exes are just assholes. he doesnt deserve you. i say, continue being friends with him, and at some point, when the time is right, tell him you still love him but hes hurt you really badly in the past. try to move on from it. but no one said that friendship is a bad thing. you never know. he may end up dumping brooke for you again. :)
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