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Meeting a lesbian
Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 3:29 am
How do lesbians (or bisexual women) find other fellow lesbians? I have no "gay-dar" when it comes to women (men are pretty simple), how can I tell without asking so I don't come off as rude or disrespectful. I think I may be bisexual, but I don't know for certain because I've never had any experience with women before. I would like to find someone to talk to (not necessarily to pursue a relationship, but to consult and share experiences and advice). I am NOT willing to go to a gay club, I'm just looking for a way to approach someone about this.
Oh, and no one knows I may be bisexual, and I don't plan to come out anytime soon if I am. At this point in my life, I want to explore this part of me further, but I don't h...
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girl with a broken heart
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 10:59 pm
well i guess i can start by saying there's this boy that i like and i just found out that he likes this girl. which really got me upset, you see i liked this boy for like 3 years. and during those 3 years he kinda knew i liked him. and like i use to have this class with him and he would always flirt with me and talk to me ands stuff and i actually thought that we have something going on but i guess i was wrong. So now you see im hearing that he like this one gurl and i dont know but for some reason when i found out my heart just drop. i just feel like a fool now and of course i cried. I mean really what would you do if u thought your crush liked you by flirting with you and messing around and saying all types of things that make you beleiv...
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seriously in love.. and never regreting a thing. please help me out!
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 10:45 pm
okay so i was afraid to tell the guy im in love with.. that i'm in love with him!! well i did..
theres a big age difference.. but before i told him the news.. he told me that he loved me as just his best friend.. that he loved me as his girlfried. its been four years that we have been this close... when he told me he loved me i said please dont.. that i had convinced myself i didnt love him like that anymore.. but i came clean and told him that i loved him and that i always have and always will. then i said forget i said that because i didnt want to lose him but he said dont be afriad to say that!!!! he didnt say that he loved me back.. but he lives far away.. and he has a girlfriend... am i to late? should i just run to see him when...
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Another stupid boyfriend question..
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 6:11 pm
Hey, i was the girl that asked this question - http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=561649
Well, now ryan is complaining that i have been hooking up with half of the guys in my school, which isnt true at all. i have only hooked up with about 8 guys since he has broken up with me. and most of them out of depression.. he starts SCREAMING at me, that im a slut.
i didnt state this in my last question but i am 16 and i am a sophmore, and he is 18 and is a senior.
Ryan-
lol ur rediculous....go ahead hook up with every1 and be slut
he imed that to me this morning on ichat. i got a text from him at 1 am last night
"Ryan- soo.. you hook up with jake 45 minutes after ...
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friend led me on, but said we were dating
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 5:48 pm
Basically, a friend and I became really close to eachother. We'd been friends for a few months, but that was it. And then the new semester started and we just started talking a lot more, calling each other at night, and texting, too. (this occured around the beginning of January). So every weekend, we would go out with each other. Basically just the two of us. I started to crush on him, and I thought possibly that he was crushing on me. However, the first weekend in February he said he didn't want a relationship right now. I knew this already (even though I hoped he'd change his mind) because of a phone conversation we had late one night in January. Well, I accepted us just being friends and we continued with our friendship as if everything...
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get back together?
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 10:57 am
Almost a week ago my girlfriend and I broke up my reasoning because we never see each other and I didn't think she really cared but I am still madly in love with her. However a couple days ago I found out she had cheated on me and she also convinced me that she did care and that's why we started talking about braking up before but I didn't know why. I think she was just too scared of the consequences that's why she broke up with me. I'm willing to forgive her and try to get back with her, but I'm not sure how to do it or if shell agree. Can you please tell me how I can handle this
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lied
Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 12:11 am
i lied to my boyfriend '
about getting him a dog'
im post to have one buy tommrow'
what do i do'
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I dont know what to do with my relashionship
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 11:19 pm
ive been dating some boy for lik 1month and a half. all thee sudden hes acting really wierd hess ignoring me not writing back to me but hes writing back to my bestfriend. what should i do? should i ask him whats going on or just let it go?:/ im a girl btw
help please
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first date!
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 10:57 pm
So I have a date tomorrow with a guy I really like. We have only met 3 times and its been with a bunch of people but we have been texting basically everyday and he finally asked me to go out to dinner with him and the movies. Im 14/f btw.. Im really nervous. like i have been out with a bunch of guys on dates but they have all been guys that I'm used to and known forever so it wasnt awkward. but what do i do tomorrow if things are awkward and we dont have anything to talk about!? any tips? conversation starters?
thanks!
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should i forgive him?
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 10:45 pm
16/f
Sorry it’s so long but I’m so confused!
So me and my ex(jack) had broken up about two weeks ago. We remained friends but I still had feelings for him but he didn’t want a relationship anymore so I said ok lets still be friends. So when ever he was down he would txt me and we would talk about it and even if it was just to talk we‘d text all day. Me and his best friend(dave) are also really close. Me and dave tell each other everything any anything and I can completely trust him. I realized i wasn’t over jack and jack said that he still had the urg to kiss me but he felt like it wasn’t the right time to go out again. I took the chance and he came over one night and things happened. My feelings got strong...
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boy/girl/girl__ i feel stuck
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 8:58 pm
15/f
hey, im a girl. i need advice on something totally crazy but i really dont know what to do.
so like three months ago i met this kid who altar served like me and i got his number and stuff. from the first day we talked i liked him but he told me he had a girlfriend, which i was ok because i dont like when people cheat. so anyways like this month we have been talking nonstop everyday and i love it. i invited him to this big highschool dance because i thought it would be cool to hang out because that is the day of our confirmation retreat. so he said yes but hes not telling his girlfriend because this is a dance were there is major grinding and he thought she would get mad. and its not like were going to do anything ...
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How to win her back..
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 7:11 pm
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=561630
Well that was the question I submitted before. The thing is that me and this girl used to be good friends until a week ago when I supposedly "played" her friend around. I spoke to her, apologised to her in a large manner (writing a large essay!), she said everything was cool and told me that she's "willing" to talk to me IF I put in the effort, but when we used to talk, our conversations were dry, so I got rather annoyed and told her that "if I'm wasting my time trying to build back this friendship, let me know" and she told me, "there's no point in wasting your time, I don't want to talk to you".
I don't know what to do, I wanna get back wi...
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Prom??
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 12:29 pm
Ok so not sure what category to put this in sorry! But why in a lot the movies is it guys plans to get a girl to have sex with him when they go to prom together??? is that really what happens at high school proms??? My prom is tomorrow and i was just wondering if thats really what goes down. and if that is what happens why is it prom and not any other dance??? Thanks =]
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Him.
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 1:02 am
I have this guy. I fell in love with him the first day i meet him. I was dating his cousin then but coudlnt get him off my mind. we have only been dating a week now. but see he has a rough past couple kids. he dont know about you. you know? well he had a daughter. never meet her or anything because the mother wouldnt let him see her. his daughter was two got killed in a car accident yesterday and was killed by a drunk driver. we are "taking a break" i was raped a few weeks ago and a car accident a few days ago.. our break started after his cousin was lieing to him about me because he found out we were dating and didnt like it then he found out about his daughter. it hit all at once. well this morning we meet up and it was akward i...
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My self esteem problem
Posted Friday April 17 2009, 12:30 am
Hi there. I'm an 18/M.
I have a big self esteem problem when it comes to girls. Normally, I am a really confident guy. Not scared to meet new people or speak to large crowds. But I have this problem when it comes to girls. See, when I meet a girl I like, instead of asking her out like a normal person would, I quickly idealize her in my mind to the point where I have convinced myself that she is way too amazing to ever want to talk to me. Then, because I have made her out to be so perfect, flawless, I stay in love with her for a year, or more, until I have completely destroyed my friendship and my chances with the girl. This problem has followed me through 13 years of school.
Now, I'm a Senior. Never had a girlf...
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Difficult choice i have to make and have no idea what to do.
Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 11:17 pm
I am a 21 year old male. I've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years. We love each other very much even though we had our ups and downs. My parents have hated her ever since the beginning because i come from Egyptian parents and they dont believe in having girlfriends.They have begged me many times to not be with her. Her parents love me and i'm always welcomed at their home.We've been together for 3 years and now shes pregnant. Her parents have said they will support us in any decision we make. I have yet to tell my parents because i know how they will react. They are religous people and believe in waiting to get married before having kids. I will most likely be kicked out of the house. My girlfriends decision is to keep the baby and i ...
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i don't want to be friends with benefits with him!
Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 9:55 pm
i really feel comfortable around this guy who i've hooked up with a couple of times. all the time he makes it seem romantic; we even kiss goodbye, and then our post hook up conversations are literally "it was just a one time thing." i love hooking up with him but i'm not sure that i want to be friends with benefits if that's what he's looking for, because i'm sure he doesn't want anything more, but i really don't want to lose him as a friend. what should i do?? (i'm 15 btw)
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What to do....
Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 9:17 pm
Ok I'll shorten this as much as possible. Ok so there is a girl I'm into, let's call her Susie. Susie and I met about 4 months ago and she quickly became my best friend over night. We went on a trip together out of the country and spent about 10 days together... day and night. I really like her and she means the world to me. Now when I met her she had a boyfriend and shortly after they broke up and she has stayed single. I'm 17 and she is 18 by the way. I'm a junior and she is a senior and she is moving out of state to go to college. Everyone has told me she likes me and we would be perfect together but the problem is that in 3-4 months she will be many miles away and I am stuck here. I can't decide what to do, should I go for it and ask h...
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an affair
Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 8:23 pm
ok in the last msg i did i think i was ot clar enogh ......
ok how do i say this .....
ok i got it .....
im in the midle of an affair.....
i dnt no how to prepare for when HIS WIFE FINDS OUT ABOUT US.....
i mean shes not the loveing type.....
or at least the quite one....
there is trutfuly no love there....
hes just there for the baby ,,,,
in other words....
what they trully sy to each other ALL THE TIME is I HATE YOU ..... GET THE F**K AWAY FROM ME B***H ..........so i dnt know how to deal with it when her 200pound self comes to me about it.... i mean i know i have to own up to it ..... but then wahat ?
can some one just help ?
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this thing i call a boyfriend
Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 7:41 pm
16/f boyfriend is 15/m
kinda long but kinda interesting too
my boyfriend has bipolar disorder and depression
i also think he is schitzophrenic at times... but thats just me. oh and hes also the biggest asshole you will ever meet. but im a bitch at times so we make a great couple...most of the time
you would never know that he had these problems though. hes captain of the varsity football team, plays lacrosse, class clown, one of the most loved guys in schoool. all the girls find him really hot and they all want to date him. but he was known as the biggest player in school too. as in he had 10 girls at the same time. and i know this because we were best friends before we dated and he would tell me ...
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