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i don't want to be friends with benefits with him!


Question Posted Thursday April 16 2009, 9:55 pm

i really feel comfortable around this guy who i've hooked up with a couple of times. all the time he makes it seem romantic; we even kiss goodbye, and then our post hook up conversations are literally "it was just a one time thing." i love hooking up with him but i'm not sure that i want to be friends with benefits if that's what he's looking for, because i'm sure he doesn't want anything more, but i really don't want to lose him as a friend. what should i do?? (i'm 15 btw)

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S0Exciited answered Saturday April 18 2009, 11:38 am:
It sounds like you're catching feelings. Which is what a lot of girls and guys alike do after being friends benefits with someone.

Like I said you're catching feelings and apparently want more from this boy. So tell him. I know, I know its easier said then done but you seriously should. Who knows, maybe just maybe he feels the same way. Don't be an object of sexual lust if you don't want to anymore. It was cool when you wanted the same thing but now you don't. Tell him how you feel.

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