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Meeting a lesbian


Question Posted Sunday April 19 2009, 3:29 am

How do lesbians (or bisexual women) find other fellow lesbians? I have no "gay-dar" when it comes to women (men are pretty simple), how can I tell without asking so I don't come off as rude or disrespectful. I think I may be bisexual, but I don't know for certain because I've never had any experience with women before. I would like to find someone to talk to (not necessarily to pursue a relationship, but to consult and share experiences and advice). I am NOT willing to go to a gay club, I'm just looking for a way to approach someone about this.

Oh, and no one knows I may be bisexual, and I don't plan to come out anytime soon if I am. At this point in my life, I want to explore this part of me further, but I don't have anyone to talk to (I don't know any out of the closet gays, at least not well enough to come up to them and talk to them).

I am 18 and female.


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helper32074 answered Monday April 20 2009, 1:06 pm:
well i am christian but i do understand where you are coming from. gays can pretty much pin point other lesbians and gays out.. i think maybe your just going thru a stage in youre life of where your wanting to explore other things that you are not used to. i have a friend who is a lesbian and it took her a while to come out. she had to explore before she could finally figure it out.

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ediemarie answered Monday April 20 2009, 10:06 am:
Hi,

have to tried going online and exploring different websites or chats concerning the subject? I don't have any expert experience, but I'm sure you can find some information or someone who can relate with you anonymously about the subject. I hope it works out.

Good luck,
Ediemarie

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