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should i forgive him?
16/f
Sorry it’s so long but I’m so confused!
So me and my ex(jack) had broken up about two weeks ago. We remained friends but I still had feelings for him but he didn’t want a relationship anymore so I said ok lets still be friends. So when ever he was down he would txt me and we would talk about it and even if it was just to talk we‘d text all day. Me and his best friend(dave) are also really close. Me and dave tell each other everything any anything and I can completely trust him. I realized i wasn’t over jack and jack said that he still had the urg to kiss me but he felt like it wasn’t the right time to go out again. I took the chance and he came over one night and things happened. My feelings got stronger but all of my friends said to stop because if he really wanted me he would ask me out again. So I tried but I couldn’t stay away.
Then one night me and dave were talking on the phone and somehow the conversation led on to me and jack. He spilt everything out about jack. Like how jack was always saying how unattractive my face is to him and that jack compared me to his ex saying I’m a 2 and shes a 10. Dave told me that Jack actually cheated on me within just a few days of us going out and that he only went out with me because he felt like it was a good deed. I knew something was up but I didn’t know it was this bad. Jack said that I made him so happy to his other friends and he said that I was soo beautiful and soo important to him but it was all just a lie? Everyday after the break up and even that night he would still give me long hugs and text for hours. I also knew that everything dave told me was true because a couple of our mutual friends said the same thing. I was soo mad because I don’t believe he had any right to do that to me. So I avoided him the day after I found out and the next day when he tried to give me a hug I pushed him away and told him not to touch me. I had a lot of people backing me up and I was happy to have the support. Then at lunch he said hi to me when the bell rang but I just rolled my eyes shook my head and walked away. I’ve always had bad relationships so I’m a bit use to this but however I don’t think he had any right. I haven’t told him why I’m mad but hes still asking for forgiveness. Should I give it to him and did i do the right thing?
Thanks!!!
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In my opinion i think you should tell him why you're mad at him. Dave might be lying he might just be jelouse that you and Jack still talk (not trying to be mean so please dont get offended!). Maybe Jack did say that but,he couldve changed his mind. And if he did say that when you guys where going out then maybe he said that because,he thought you would always be oontop of him like,you would always be calling him telling him that you want him back and everything but,now that he see's you're not doing that he's missing you and he regrets all those things he said about you.
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I think you should wait awhile to get your mind straightened out.
You DEFINITELY did the right thing. No one deserves to be used like that.
If you choose to forgive him, that doesnt mean you have to talk to him, or become friends with him again.
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