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an affair
ok in the last msg i did i think i was ot clar enogh ......
ok how do i say this .....
ok i got it .....
im in the midle of an affair.....
i dnt no how to prepare for when HIS WIFE FINDS OUT ABOUT US.....
i mean shes not the loveing type.....
or at least the quite one....
there is trutfuly no love there....
hes just there for the baby ,,,,
in other words....
what they trully sy to each other ALL THE TIME is I HATE YOU ..... GET THE F**K AWAY FROM ME B***H ..........so i dnt know how to deal with it when her 200pound self comes to me about it.... i mean i know i have to own up to it ..... but then wahat ?
can some one just help ?
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If this man loved you and cared for you he would have left his wife and made you his one and only. Since he hasn't it is fair to say he isn't going to leave his wife for you and he is just feeding your ego with BS. Oh, and getting some free sex on the side for himself. It is not in his best interests to tell you he loves his wife and has no intention of leaving her. What woman in her right mind would get involved with a married man if they all did that?
That being said, it is in YOUR best interest that his wife does not find out. Angry wives have been known to hurt people when their lives are being messed with. I for one do not blame them at all.
Your best bet to be safe is to end his affair and
steer clear of his wife. Very few people will sympathize with you. My advise when you see her 200 pound self coming to you is to run and leave town ASAP.
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Im not here to judge you... I had a fairly long affair myself...
Is he telling you that there is no love? Is he telling you that its all they talk/fight about...?? Are you certain that their marriage is so rocky or could he be just telling you that to stay in your pants, so to speak??
Has he told you that he is going to tell her? Perhaps she doesnt need to know that its actually YOU...
If she finds out and knows its you she will be angry. You're the one in her eyes who ruined her marriage and broke up her family...
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You're knowingly involved with a married man with a baby? And you're not dealing with guilt, you're dealing with the thought of his wife finding out?
Disgusting.
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i think i am one of those people whom answered your question wrong. i get it now though.. yes if he goes for a divorce with his wife. he wont be able to see that baby all the time that is rough. but you cant stay in a marraige like that. whats that going to show the baby? anyways i think you should tell him you feel he needs to tell his wife. he can go and get visitation and all that stuff. When she comes at you. dont start and argument that causes to many problems. just let her know this isnt between you and her its between her and him. If she blames you walk away its not your place to interfer. she starts a fight let her swing at you before you take action. Its not your fault that their marriage fell apart you didnt force him to it.
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