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marines
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 4:30 pm
I'm 18/F and finishing up my freshman year in college, and i've been dating my b/f for over 2 years now. he's 20 and about to graduate high school. he's had a really rough life with family issues and school, and he recently got denied from an electrical program, which was his only plan for the future. he just told me yesterday that he wants to join the marines. it made my entire day miserable and finally i cried and begged him not to go because i can't stand the fact of him going into the marines. now i'm the only reason why he won't sign up for it, and i'm starting to feel really guilty about it. however, he told me that he wanted to join because of me, because he wanted to fix all his flaws that i didn't like about him, and he think...
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boyfrienddd?
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 4:14 pm
hey, this is long so bear with me. so I'm 14/f, turning 15 soon. i have a boyfriend (16/m). it seemed perfect at first but now...i don't know. he goes to a different school and sometimes its hard to see him. also, he has some family problems. and he gets really paranoid and jealous of my guy friends. he also gets reallllllly enraged about something for a little bit then is fine? it bothers me and i don't know what to do. hes really stressed out so i don't want to stress him out more. i really like him but i don't know if i should stay with him because sometimes i feel like shit when he gets mad.
another thing, i have a problem. i already said that my boyfriend gets jealous of my guy friends. well they are really flirty, and i...
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still not over him
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 3:02 pm
My ex and I have been broken up for several months. We don't talk at all and go to the same college. I don't see him daily, but we'll cross paths ocassionally and I do know his schedule. Some days I will change my route or come early/late just so he will see me and possibly say something. It's ridiculous that I still do this when the relationship has been over for awhile. I even ask myself "what are you doing?" while I'm waiting for him, but he still gives me those butterflies. How do I get over this? Time has not helped and my friends and family are way beyond tired of hearing about it.
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are we together or not?
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 3:00 pm
Ok well I'm with this guy or at least i think so but i don't know now, because I asked him out he said yes but just then he said this
Him:"lol dun worry. i love you as a friend .. but dont think i'm there at loving you as more yet lol"
We where talking about something (not going to get into it)
After he said that I said
Me:"Don't worry I don't think like that lol"
Does this mean we're together or not even tho he said he only likes me as a friend?
He calls me his girlfriend, and he said yes when I asked him out and he said he wanted to date me.
What does it mean?
I like him yes but not nothing like my other relationships. Meaning I don't reall...
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A guy going to college and saying we can't be together cuz I wonte get to s
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 1:30 pm
I'm cindy Im 16 years old i fell in love with ruben he told me he loved me and that he would wait fore me sins I still need to finish high school I'm in 9 grade and he's 12 grade and hes 18 years old but today he told me that he would not wait for me cuz we wonte get to see each other that much what do I do he told me he dos not love me anymore
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Is my long-term relationship going anywhere?
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 11:57 am
I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now and I'm not sure where it's headed. I'm 32, he's almost 35. I'm a divorced single mom of two kids, he's never been married and doesn't have kids. We both have our own place and are both very independent people. During the week, he usually comes to my house for dinner and stays for an hour or 2. Friday and Saturday nights my kids and I are at his house. And we usually spend the night on Saturdays. He has a three bedroom house and has practically given my kids a room for when they're over there.
We spend 90% of our free time together and rarely ever fight. We are really great together, but I'm beginning to think it's because we never talk about stuff. He's admitted that...
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how do i move our relationship forward?
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 7:13 pm
I'm 15/f, and really fancy one of my guy mates. We're not just friends, we both act like we like each other, and although we have never actually kissed, it's obvious that we're more than friends. He'll do things like tell me I'm beautiful, stick up for me, ask me on dates just me and him, spoon with me all night, try to get us alone, and he's asked me to go to prom with him.
BUT, he is also involved with this other girl. I'm not really sure what's going on with them but I know they've had sex. I don't know if they're relationship is just physical or if he has proper feelings for her.
Also, he'll act like he really likes me, and then do things like take ages to text me back,and not go out of his way to see me at...
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HIGHSCHOOL DRAMA: the gothic guy could have been mine.
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 6:10 pm
listen i know it's long but please out of the kindness of your hearts read me and help! i rate high for well thought out advice and i seriously one confused 15-year-old individual!
I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever h...
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biggest asshole ever
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 3:48 pm
16/f bf 16/m
me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up last week. yeah we were in love. he said the reasons we broke up were because we fight too much and that hes at the point where he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me anymore because its stressing both of us out. but he said he still loved me and wanted me to always be in his life. he also said it was going to be hard for him to get over me. so we ended with that and talked the whole next week of spring break. things seemed to be going good as friends n stuff like he even said that i was the only person he trusted and that he didnt need anyone else. but then we got back to school n everthing crashed down. hes always been a flirt even when we were dating and before he...
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Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 8:44 am
Alright, im 15/f, and my boyrfiend still hasnt talked to me. He and i got in a very big fight, but later on that night he called ne and said he was sorrry , and that he felt bad. I just dont know what to do anymore. We have been together for so long, but he lives across thee freaking country!! I never see him, and idk if he is cheating on me!! help
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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Give Him Head
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 1:30 am
ok all my boyfriend wants to do is have sex or have me give him a blow job just because i did it once. he tells me he loves me but i just dont no anymore...
its like we cant just hang out any more... :(
does he love me for me or dose he love me for the sex and stuff
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how do i make my girlfriend
Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 12:28 am
how do make my girlfriend feel special
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How do I get over the embarrassment of losing to my girlfriend?
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 10:20 pm
I have a beautiful, sweet girlfriend and I am very happy with her in every way. She is a black belt in a martial art though. We are both in our early 20's. To make a long story short the other week a friend of mine asked if she could show him some self defense techniques. She said okay and asked him to try to grab her. He did and next thing she had put him on the ground.
My girlfriend is as feminine and nice as any girl, and my friend is about my size and I am 181 cm weighing 81 kgs – and I work out several times a week and I’m a strong guy. My girlfriend is 166 cm and weighs about 55 kg. I realize now that I was naive, underestimated her and that I had some subconscious macho attitude – but fact is I never would have t...
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omg... :(
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 9:20 pm
i was the same girl that asked this question [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
and he dumped me today april 20th and im really sad :(..OK so it was lunch time i was staring at him so he and my friends were together but i was with some other girls. nd then i look at him and there was like this heart cookie or sumthing and he broke it in half. my friends brought me to the bathroom and they told me he had broken up with me. i litterly bursted into tears. an my friend dared me to kiss some boy in the cheek i did it and he was there (the boy i was datting) nd he saw. but someone made him dump me cause they told him i was using him.. i dont knoe what to do he told me he still loved me but idk :(..but i wasnt using him and i knoe...
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Im in love with my ex!
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 9:17 pm
OK so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because she was crushin on another guy.....and i loved my choice on brakin up with her but i just i cant move on i just cant and each time i get a text message from her my heart jumps for joy and i loved er so much and she tells me she loves me everyday what should i do????
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should i ask her to talk to him?
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 5:40 pm
I like my guy friend and a bit over 2 weeks ago I told him that I did in sortof a risky way, he was freaked out about it but we briefly discussed that before vacation started, and thankfully we're still friends even though it's still a bit awkward. We didn't talk over the vacation though, and I feel like either he's trying to forget about it and assuming I'll take it as a "i just want to be friends" or he's still not sure how to respond to it or how he feels. I want to believe the second thing because it is somewhat likely but still I can't get my hopes up to high. But either way he never really responded to it, like he never said whether or not he feels the same way, and it's understandable since it's not everyday this guy in ...
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My Story.
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 4:55 pm
14/F
My boyfriend is 5 years older than me hes 19. Me and him have been dating for 8 months done things before that but officially been dating for 8 months. My family want me to have nothing too do with him because of his age and he doesnt have the best reputation. I live in a small town everyone knows everybody and everything. My boyfriend is one of the more well known people in this town. People were shocked when I first started dating him. Im a freshman in my HS and he dropped out 3 months before his graduation this year. He says hes going to the college to get his GED but hey he doesnt seem to be awake in time to go he maybe goes 2 times max a week and not to mention hes a pot head. He smokes all the time and jokingly I s...
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Her sex drive lost it's wheels...
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 4:40 pm
Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few years. After we became comfortable with eachother and solitified our connection we began having sex. We were both virgins and once we got some experience it was amazing. We had sex all the time and it was passionate and loving. FAst forward 2 more years and all of a sudden I can't get her to do anything... EVER. She says she loves me and that she is attracted to me. And I am positive there is no one else I'm confident of that. However she just does not think about sex, does not initiate anything, and seems not to be interested in fulfilling my needs and desires.
I am understanding of this so im not pressuring her to have sex with me we talked and I forced myself never to...
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Long distance relationship and age gap...
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 4:11 pm
First and foremost, I would sincerely appreciate all advice offered here..I just don't know what else to do right now. I recently traveled to Mexico on a vacation with my family. We stayed for two weeks in an amazing resort, but I never expected to meet someone I wanted to be with so badly. I met Ryan on my first day at the hotel, he works there on the Entertainment staff. He's absolutely gorgeous :) and we hit it off right away. I'm nineteen, soon to be twenty, and he just turned twenty three, so there is a bit of an age gap which neither of us consider to be an issue. We spent every second together during my vacation, and he took many days off work to chill with me downtown. He left work early everyday to go have lunch with me. We esta...
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hi
Posted Tuesday April 21 2009, 3:10 pm
im in love with this guy but he's only my friend with benefit i love him to death the problem is he act different now sometimes he act like he doesnt want me or need me any more how to get him to love me the way he use to?because i dont want to lose him ever
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