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HIGHSCHOOL DRAMA: the gothic guy could have been mine.
listen i know it's long but please out of the kindness of your hearts read me and help! i rate high for well thought out advice and i seriously one confused 15-year-old individual!
I'm met him in detention......
when i walked in the room it was like time moved a little slower, just like the movies.he was so beautiful and i couldn't help but stare. he was wearing black, his favorite color, like he always does.
I felt an immediate connection with him. Every time our eyes met in the dead silence it was like a shock of electricity.
he's a freshman I'm a freshman, but of corse, we have no classes together because thats how REALITY works. so when we got to leave i let it go knowing nothing would ever happen.
All i could do was think about him and wonder. You'd think for people in the same class in the same school we'd see each other. A couple of weeks later... i saw him. he was with my friend lisa and she introduced us. He said, " Hey! remember me? from detention?" of corse i did he asked for m number and later that friday evening he texted me we talked until about 11:00 at night.... then he called me. We talked for 7 hours till 6 in the morning. i didn't get any sleep at all but i never felt more rested. i've never loved any body, until that saturday morning i knew i loved him. we talked about everything but usually when im on the Phone with guy all he talks about is sex and i hate that thats why there short conversations.
He was different and thats what i love about him.
we just texted everyday from then on he asked me to go to the movie of my choice and would pay for it as long a went with him he was happy he said. i was pretty sure he liked me back at that point. the day of the movie he wasn't texting back, i got mad at him ignored him a couple of days, i still didn't see him at school so it was pretty easy. but i gave in he told me that his phone was done and he just coudn't i belived him i didn't we didn't have any other way to contact each other besides cells i didn't think to ask! well then shortly after our little reunion my dad took my phone away so we stopped talking un willingly, and i STILL didn't see him in school so what could i do? about 3 weeks after we stopped talking i see him and he's holding hands with a girl. I couldn't believe it then thats how i would see him with his girlfriend.
WELL, i did see him in school sometimes and he would walk me to class even though his class is on the other side of the school but then i just couldn't talk to him after the movie/cell phone thing it was kinda awkward so i didn't know what to say when he came up to me and i'd be like hi, yea, no, bye.
i accepted he had a girlfriend, i liked him to much to try and take away his happiness. they are still going out to this day.
WELL my friend ariel whos friends with him asked him if he ever liked me and he answered yea i did!!!! OMG! i got so mad he did like me and now i can't have him....or maybe i can
well now just recently he got his phone again but since we don't talk it's not like i can ask for it or anything and idk if it would be weird i know he wouldn't think its weird but if i asked my friend for his number this is how i know this information! and anyways i've been skipping my 2nd period on A-days to go see him in his study hall but he never goes to school but tomarrow im pretty sure hes gonna be there should i try talking to him in there for the first tie in months??? or what please help!!! LO(i'm)VE
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I think you should txt him and just see where it goes from there. he might still like you and is just assuming that you dont like him. You really have nothing to lose. if he doesn't like you you are the same as you are right now, without him. if he does, then things will probably get better between you! So it really can only get better.
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If it was me, I would get his number from a friend and txt him. Since its the first time you willt alk to him in months, txting will aleviate any akwardness and you can get out what you want to say. Also, if he likes you, getting a txt from you out of nowhere would be a very nice suprise. It would probably make his heeart skip a beat.
I would start out just by saying "Hey long time no talk.. How have you been?" And then you can ease into talking about the two of you and his girlfriend. As far as his girlfriend goes I woudl just say something like "So I didnt know you have a girlfriend" and see what he says. Sometimes people just stick with their girlfriends because nothing else has come along and they dont really have a reason to break up with them. They are content. Who knows, you could be his reason for breaking up with her.
I think its very commendable for you to have said that you accepted his girlfriend and like him too much to take awar his happiness. But whos to say he's happy with her? Its a dog eat dog world out there sweetie and you have to go after what you want. If you want this guy, GO AFTER HIM! Trying is better than wondering what if. And if he is not into you or doesnt want to leave his girlfriend, then you can accept that. But dont just accept the fact that he has a girlfriend. Who knows, he could be sitting at home wondering what would have happened if the two of you kept in contact. Give it a shot.
Good luck sweetie and I wish you the best!
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