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biggest asshole ever
16/f bf 16/m
me and my boyfriend of 8 months just broke up last week. yeah we were in love. he said the reasons we broke up were because we fight too much and that hes at the point where he doesnt want to be in a relationship with me anymore because its stressing both of us out. but he said he still loved me and wanted me to always be in his life. he also said it was going to be hard for him to get over me. so we ended with that and talked the whole next week of spring break. things seemed to be going good as friends n stuff like he even said that i was the only person he trusted and that he didnt need anyone else. but then we got back to school n everthing crashed down. hes always been a flirt even when we were dating and before he was the biggest player in school. all the girls are in love with him and were so happy when they somehow found that we broke up. well me, my ex and this one girl he always used to hook up with are all in the same class. when we got back to school my ex didnt say anything to me. he had said that he wanted space when we broke up but we had still been texting n stuff so i didnt get why he was ignoring me. but i gave him space. it ticked me off that he was ignoring me but i wasnt going to let it get to me. HOWEVER, everytime i looked at him and this girl they were ALL OVER eachother. it looked like they were having sex with their clothes on practically. this made me SOOOOOOOO angry and i wanted to go punch her. plus me and this girl are friends. not best friends but still friends. then i heard him saying stuff to her like stay after school with me. and after school they both walked together with his arm around her to the staircase which is where he would always take me to make out and stuff because no one ever goes there. i was so angry and jealous and annoyed. i really couldnt believe it, it seemed like he didnt care about me one bit and yet i love him so much. i think if he had any respect for me at all he wouldnt do that or at least not in front of me. but maybe i am just iver reacting. i mean we are broken up i guess. but still, i could never even think about doing anyhting with another guy for a long time. its going to take me a while before i get over him because he meant the world to me. so i dont know how he could just go and be ready to hook up with everyone the next week. i just dont know why hes doing this or what to think. please help
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Sounds to me like he is enjoying the single life. He may have continues talking to you and being nice over spring break becasue there was no one else around. But now that your back in school there is tons of other girls that he has access to. He might still have feelings for you but he is making it pretty clear that he is not interested in being in a relationship with you at this point. You best bet is to get over him and move on. Enjoy the single life just like he is. If someone is going to be careless with your feelings like that, then they are not worth your time anyway.
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Im not exactly positive as to what the advice you need is... but the thing you must do is obvious; MOVE ON. YOu dont want him back... do you?
He is LYING to you. And since you are not dating anymore... he doesnt see you as worth telling the truth to...
True, it hurts. But if you ignore him... things will get better for you. Just work on yourself. Conquer a bad habit, excercise, get involved... do GOOD things that make you feel good. If you FEEL good, you LOOK good. Just be the best person you can. And WHEN he comes crawling back to you asking for forgiveness.... DONT take him back. Improving of oneself is not only a confidence booster, but its a way to payback all those who did you wrong. You can look at him in 5 years with his beer belly holding hands with the girl he constantly cheats on, and him living is sorry,pitiful, and pathetic life and feel SO glad that you moved on, OR you can be the girl he always mistreats and cheats on that is holding his hand. The best thing about breakups is that a lot of people learn more from than the breakup than the actual relationship.
He doesnt deserve a girl like you anyways. Any slimeball that lies to a girl that has been good to him isnt worth it. TRUST me, better things are coming your way... TRUE and REAL things. So dont waste time on those things that are temporary and fake.
Hope i helped some.
xoxo
madisonn
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