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Should i break up with him?
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 8:44 pm
ok i need serious help. I'm in love with my boyfriend, but the way he's acting is ridiculous.
the other night someone told him that i had started smoking again, he fliped and took my ciggarettes and then yelled at me for not coming to him first. He is so convinced that i'm going to cheat on him with one of my brothers friends that he had a panic attack that put him in the hospital. He wont let me go around my bro. and he is constantly reminding me of how i started smoking behind his back. He told someone behind my back that i dress like a slut around other people(a turtle neck is slutty to him). He went through my fone and called eveyone who txted me!
Thats just the bad though.
i absolutley adore him. i'm in love with ...
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You oppinion's! Fate or fact's?
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 4:25 pm
So i was just thinking to myself after having a conversation with m best girl friend, she says she feels really sorry for me not havinga girlfriend but im really fine with it. i dont get lonley much because im allways busy skating or playing guitar or doing somthing. whilst thinking about it some more i started saying in my mind, "Well if its meant to be then its meant to be. if not then its not." i realised that i was debating whether its fate that brings couples together or whether its determination or somthing. for some poeple relationships fall into place easily but for other its a one sided love were one feels strongly for another but the other... not so much.
Whats your view and why? Is it fate that brings us ...
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ex boyfriend of just about 3 years
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 4:09 pm
Well, I'm a 17/f, I'll be 18 in a month. My exboyfriend just turned 18.
Well here's the thing.. We were together since 2006.. and just like any other couple, we broke up a few times. A couple times my emotions got the best of me that it caused my family to build a great hate for this guy. A lot of drama has gone on with us and our families. Our families don't like the thought of us being together at all. Some of my friends don't either. They tell me that i'm better than him and i deserve better.. but it's just so hard. i've taken him back everytime, he never cheated on me, jus broke my heart a few times. he has left me for a girl before. just once.. and we didnt talk for a solid 3 months. then we came back to eachother because i beli...
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HELP I CANT GET A BF!!!
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 1:30 pm
ok, i cant get a bf. my mates think im addicted to boys. i think i am but no one will go out with me! its so annoying!
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Talking to him?
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 5:09 am
I've met this guy and when we are together we communicate, have fun, things are great! But when we aren't together (he lives 4 states away) and we have to talk on the phone, he does 99.9% of the talking.. and it's usually him just being silly, and I'm just sitting there laughing or saying "yeah", "ok" etc. He tells me he gets frustrated that I never talk to him. The problem is, I don't even know what to talk about! Maybe my question isn't so much how, but what to talk about..
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feeling insecure
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 1:46 am
me and my boyfriend go to the same school, and whenever i'm not with him and he's out with his friends. and if there's a girl or i don't know that's there or a group of girls with a group of guys. i don't know why i feel like he might be cheating on me. because in the beginning of the relationship, i caught him flirting with another girl, but he didn't say he didn't. he admitted the fact that he did, he said he stopped.. but i wouldn't know. pretty stupid i know, i just feel insecure. he says he's IN LOVE with me, and i'm the only person he needs in his life. and that i am his life, he rarely hangs out with his friends now because he only wants to be with me. but why am i still feeling insecure? i keep telling myself, "maybe he's not a...
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jealousy
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 1:28 am
i have to admit, i get pretty jealous when i see my boyfriend just talk to a girl. or if a girl just says hi to him. i know, that's not something to get jealous over. maybe because the beginning of the relationship, i caught him flirting with another girl behind my back. i guess i lost some trust, or maybe i just really like him. i'm not sure what it is, but i really hate the fact that i get jealousy really easily. i don't say anything, because i know it's not that big so i try to control it. he told me he gets bothered by the fact that i meet new guys every once and a while. which i'm not sure why, because we can still do what we've been doing even when we're going out right? i have to admit, everytime i get jealous over a girl... i try to...
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outta state boyfriend
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 11:48 pm
my bf lived here when we started dating. went away for college and i cheated on him. he found out and we stayed together to make it work. some days were good, some not so good. we broke-took one day breaks on and off. we have broken up for good now because he thinks i just lie all the time. he said id get a fresh start. i never did get it. i want to go visit him this weekend but what can i say to make him reconsider, not think bad of me or just get us back together. when we are together, we are extremly happy. this is a bit of the huge problem bc im going this weekend and cant describe the little details so please please all and any good advice would help!
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ugh
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 10:07 pm
my boyfriend of 3 years moved away upstate (2 hours away).. now everytime we talk textmessaging wise or on aim, we ALWAYS FIGHT about the stupidest shit too. i dont understand why.. is it a sign to move on? like wtf i need help here ahha.
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can't seem to stop thinking about him!
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 9:53 pm
long story kinda short... I went with guy,we fell deeply in love,we moved to different schools,I wasn't really allowed to go anywhere, so we broke up. We contnued to talk as if we still went out a month or two later because we were hoping he would be able to get into the school I was going to. He didn't and slowly I realized it wasn't going to work.I tried to remain friends because I loved talking to him so much but ad time passed he began to change into a complete asshole!! We had an argument a day or two before cristmas. He said fuck you and hung up on me! I had had enough! I wrote him a nice long letter on myspace fussing him out and then deleted and blocked him!! I havnt seen him since last school year and I havnt spoken to him since th...
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boyfriend + friends = confused situation
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 9:30 pm
14/f
freshman
so i just started dating this guy. we will call him D. i have known D for almost 2 years now. We have been friends for about a year. Some of my friends think its great that we are going out. Butmost of them cant stand it. When I get to school I hang out with D, and our friends. And i was planning to still sit with my other friends at lunch and let D sit with his friends most of them time. Well my others friends are mad at me because I am going out with him ( he didnt always treat me the best when we were friends but he didnt do anything to my friends) i dont want my other friends to be mad at me, but i need to be with D too. I know friendship comes first so thats why i set tiem aside. What should I do? Al...
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I want to make my girlfriend happy and feel good
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 9:02 pm
I'm going out with this girl that I really fell for and I want her to really like me. I want something slick to say to her to make her smile and say aww. For example we were playing a question game where we go back and forth asking each other questions. She asked "Have you ever seen something that reminded you of something else?" I said "Yeah". She says "When?" I say "Today" She says "What and What?" I said "You an angel." May sound corny but she smiled and I know she felt good. She said "Aww your so sweet I love you." I want to have those all the time. I always want to have something to say, to throw it out there she says "I'm bad at this..." referring to being...
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will we have a relationship?
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 8:08 pm
So i really really like this guy i mean he's all i think about and its the first time that this has really happend and its just crazy. We have hung out before and we kissed and he was so super sweet to me and he said he liked me a lot so it made me feel great. The thing is i dont know what he wants i dont know if it will be a relationship or what it will be. i really want a relationship because i care about him so much. I don't want to be to blunt about it because im afraid im reading to much into this that in reality he doesnt like me enough or want to be with me. He has been all ive been thinking about for awhile and i don't know what to do because its killing me not knowing whats going to happen with us. He will talk to me and call me on...
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two boys
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 8:04 pm
f/ 15Okay so My boyfriend and i have been together for almost six months. He is seventeen. I am the first girl he has EVER had feelings for. like at all. I do care about him, dont get me wrong.BUtttt Theres this guy, Whos nineteen. And hes suchhh a sweetheart. He doesnt want me for sex, and we flirt all the time I really like him. I dont want to break up with my boyfriend, but i also really like the other guy. I am so confused because i really like them both. help me please?
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i still love my ex boyfriend
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 7:39 pm
i am a female and im 14. im still in love with my ex boyfriend. im going out with his ex-best friend. and im not at all comfterble with it because i still love my ex. i want to get back with him. but i dont know how he feels about me anymore. and im just confused and dont know what to do anymore. any sugestions?
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scared! handjob.. getting fingered.
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 6:20 pm
15/f
so I'm close to dating this kid and I'm not the girl to do more than making out or whatever. but he said that when we date like around 5 months he might finger me and I asked if he wanted something in return and he said a handjob. I'm like freaking out because I don't know if I should stick to my morals and say I will never do it or just do it because it's not sex.
also I was wonder like how to give a handjob and how does a boy finger a girl? I know how they do but like do girls have to be shaved down there or no.
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Issue with being asked out??
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 5:39 pm
Hey, I've never had a boyfriend before (just to get that out there), but I HAVE been asked out by a lot of boys.
Here's the thing though--I have this really weird issue with getting mad at the boys who ask me out! It's usually if I'm talking to them, like, alone (usually over the internet) and they ask me out, I begin nicely and say "I'm sorry, that's really sweet, but I just don't really like you like that." and then it allll goes downhill from there. I usually start accusing them of playing ZAP (a game that forces people to ask certain people out) or I get creeped out and I refuse to speak to them, or I just plain get mad if they say one little thing wrong (ie. "I can't believe I was scared to do that", I would ...
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Awkwardd...
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 5:31 pm
So there's this guy that I really hate but I'm sort of friends with at the same time... I know that doesn't really make sense :S He's really annoying and has like no life but he follows me around so I talk to him and everything. So the other night over facebook, he asked me out. Naturally I said "sorry, but I don't really like you that way." Apparently he's liked me for a long time. It was VERY awkward.
But now I feel really weird. I have this issue with getting mad at boys who ask me out... I can't shake it! So I ended up getting mad at him today and I yelled at him. I feel really bad too, because he has no idea what's going on. Tomorrow is the last day before vacation (thank God) so I won't have to worry about it much, b...
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Boyfriend problems..
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 4:56 pm
Okay well, me and my boyfriend started dating on the 5th of this month, but we been bestfriends and talking for like a year now. I REALLY like him, like I know he doesn't have the best personality, but theres something about him that I really really like, But im not sure his feeling the same way like yesterday he told me that he wanted to be single for a little while until he had time for a girlfriend, but his still not sure and may change his mind.. Well after a few hours I spent talking to him after that he said you know how I said I will change my mind well I am because I really like you, but one of his ex-girlfriends had texted me and was like I heard you and Chance broke up and I was like yeah how do you know already? And she said beca...
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Hard to GET.
Posted Thursday April 23 2009, 4:53 pm
What is a good way to hook a guy, and like keep his interest? Guys these days tend to have a wandering eye, yet some of these guys are hooked on their girl. How do I have to act to "Hook, Line, and Sink" a good guy?
I rate high for REAL and HElpful answers!
-Madison
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