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ex boyfriend of just about 3 years
Well, I'm a 17/f, I'll be 18 in a month. My exboyfriend just turned 18.
Well here's the thing.. We were together since 2006.. and just like any other couple, we broke up a few times. A couple times my emotions got the best of me that it caused my family to build a great hate for this guy. A lot of drama has gone on with us and our families. Our families don't like the thought of us being together at all. Some of my friends don't either. They tell me that i'm better than him and i deserve better.. but it's just so hard. i've taken him back everytime, he never cheated on me, jus broke my heart a few times. he has left me for a girl before. just once.. and we didnt talk for a solid 3 months. then we came back to eachother because i believe it was meant to be.. i told myself the last time we broke up, which was in february, that i would never look back, and never take him back, but the thought runs through my mind daily. i've never loved someone as much as him. ever. he's my everything. i just don't know what to do.. because i know our families don't want us to be together.. so how would it ever work??? my family doesn't like him, his family doesn't like me.. (keep in mind that at one point my family absolutely loveeeddddd him and his family lloved me) a lot of shit has just happened between us for it to get so bad.. and we have gotten over it.. our families just won't! i'm stuck!!!! i'm scared that if i be with him again, that the same thing is just gonna happen ovr and overr again.. last time we were together.. i basically lost my family cuz of him.. thinking he would stick by me. and he left me and said he wasnt in love with me anymore.. but recently comes back to me and tells me he just cant help himself and he gets so wrapped up in me..and always asks whats up with us.. i'm his first love.. so i know hes notfaking his feelings... we're both the most comfortable when we're together... hes the one guy i can just do whatever and be myselfff and not everrr be embarrasseddd..
we're just good together..
someone give me your thoughts on this..cuz i'm absolutelyt stuck :[
its driving me crazyyy
thanks so much
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Love is a truly wonderful thing to have in ones life. The thing is that you're 17, and at that age you should be enjoying youth and expanding your horizons. Its great to date people, because than you wont have to worry about the turmulchous headaches of breaking up. Live life, have some fun and enjoy being young now, because you'll have your entire life to find and fall in love with someone special.
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You have to realize, youre only 18. He seems to be your first love, which is hard to let go.
You probably thought the first time you guys broke up and got back together, you thought that would never happen again.
But it did.
He left you for another girl!? What makes you think he wont do that again?
You DO deserve better. Dont let any guy treat you like that.
I encourage you to let him go and start moving on.
i'll be praying for you, with whatever decision you make =]
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