Member Since: April 27, 2009
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Well, I'm a 17/f, I'll be 18 in a month. My exboyfriend just turned 18.
Well here's the thing.. We were together since 2006.. and just like any other couple, we broke up a few times. A couple times my emotions got the best of me that it caused my family to build a great hate for this guy. A lot of drama has gone on with us and our families. Our families don't like the thought of us being together at all. Some of my friends don't either. They tell me that i'm better than him and i deserve better.. but it's just so hard. i've taken him back everytime, he never cheated on me, jus broke my heart a few times. he has left me for a girl before. just once.. and we didnt talk for a solid 3 months. then we came back to eachother because i believe it was meant to be.. i told myself the last time we broke up, which was in february, that i would never look back, and never take him back, but the thought runs through my mind daily. i've never loved someone as much as him. ever. he's my everything. i just don't know what to do.. because i know our families don't want us to be together.. so how would it ever work??? my family doesn't like him, his family doesn't like me.. (keep in mind that at one point my family absolutely loveeeddddd him and his family lloved me) a lot of shit has just happened between us for it to get so bad.. and we have gotten over it.. our families just won't! i'm stuck!!!! i'm scared that if i be with him again, that the same thing is just gonna happen ovr and overr again.. last time we were together.. i basically lost my family cuz of him.. thinking he would stick by me. and he left me and said he wasnt in love with me anymore.. but recently comes back to me and tells me he just cant help himself and he gets so wrapped up in me..and always asks whats up with us.. i'm his first love.. so i know hes notfaking his feelings... we're both the most comfortable when we're together... hes the one guy i can just do whatever and be myselfff and not everrr be embarrasseddd..
we're just good together..
someone give me your thoughts on this..cuz i'm absolutelyt stuck :[
its driving me crazyyy
thanks so much (link)
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Love is a truly wonderful thing to have in ones life. The thing is that you're 17, and at that age you should be enjoying youth and expanding your horizons. Its great to date people, because than you wont have to worry about the turmulchous headaches of breaking up. Live life, have some fun and enjoy being young now, because you'll have your entire life to find and fall in love with someone special.
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Last october, my boyfriend got laid off from his job that he had been at for 5 years. (The reason they chose him to be laid off is BS because it was for personal conflict reasons within the company but that is another story). anyway, the company promised him his job back after the slow winter season.(he could return in spring). I would like to add that he is well known and known to be on top at his trade within this county. He collected unemployment but opted to wait for his job back because he was getting paid better at that company than he would at any other(almost twice as much on a good month). Well, spring has sprung and we recently saw an add in the paper hiring for his position. He never was officially fired, and his pic is still on the wall at work. Question is, is this illegal and should he do something about this? He even called them and asked if they had hired anyone and it was a simple "no", and it did not sound as if they have any intention of giving him his job back. if this helps, the business is a cooperative and he is a share holder. (link)
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Dear legal matter!
The problem with the laws pertaining to layoffs is sketchy at best. If they didn't fire him per say, and had agreed to bring him back after the slump than I would have to say that they are breaking the law. However, if your Boy friend and his employers didn't sign a document stating that they would bring him back, than really there is nothing you or he can do.
It should also be stated that the laws pertaining to employment matters differ from state to state. In the state of Maryland there is a thing called "at-will employment", which is basically a fancy term for "we can fire you whenever we feel like it". The fact that they have kept his picture up on the wall is very strange, because they are still Advertising your boy friends skills. It's like saying "come see this guy, he's the best" and when they come in to see him, it's like they're being duped. So in context they are creating false advertising by keeping his picture up there, and making things worse for you guys because it's giving the two of you false hope that he'll return to work.
My advice for you is to Hire a lawyer! and see what comes from it. Good luck
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