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HELP I CANT GET A BF!!!
ok, i cant get a bf. my mates think im addicted to boys. i think i am but no one will go out with me! its so annoying!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I have noticed that whenever I am completely happy being single, and not really thinking about guys at all, someone who I'm crazy about comes along. And I've heard a lot of other people say this too.
You shouldn't want a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. Be happy being single, start doing things for yourself - find your style, be yourself, write down things you have always wanted to do and start doing them, have fun with your friends etc.
When you stop thinking about guys all the time and just have fun being single, you will probably meet someone. I know you may have heard this before and are just thinking, 'that's not true' or 'cliche', but trust me, that's what I thought until I met someone every time I stopped looking for someone.
Also, guys like girls who don't seem desperate for a boyfriend. Don't act try hard.
However, if there IS someone that you really like at the moment, and would like to be with, flirt with him and then ask him out yourself. Take control.
If you'd like any more advice on the subject or on anyone you're interested in, feel free to message me.
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ok heres the thing guys arent gunna want a girl wh is desperate to have a guy friend in fact thats opposite of what they want. so just act cool and be confident and know that you can be independantg guys want a girl they can chase a little not one that comes running to the first guy that walks by. so just be yourself and things will happen.
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lol. my frineds think im addicted to guys. but the truth is you should wait until your ready. and if there no asking you out. ask them out. your a powerful independent women. take control.
good luck.
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Don't try to get a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, don't date for the sake of dating. Then things will happen.
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Welcome to womanhood! Haha, sounds dorky but it is so true! Boys are really cute, and many can make great boyfriends.
If you want a boyfriend, first you will have to drop the reputation for being boy crazy. Try to tone it down. Don't talk about guys infront of other guys. This is for sure the HARDEST step. I want you to be who you are, because that is who guys will fall in love with, BUT try to tone down all of that vivaciousness when you first met people because it could be misconstrued.
Next, meet people. Meet your friends' guy friends, the kids in your class, kids in the commuinity. Just put yourself out there.
Someday, you will find the one. You just have to be patient, and the right man will sweep you off your feet ;)
<3/ariannekp
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