Member Since: April 23, 2009
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Last Update: April 25, 2009
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ok, i cant get a bf. my mates think im addicted to boys. i think i am but no one will go out with me! its so annoying! (link)
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lol. my frineds think im addicted to guys. but the truth is you should wait until your ready. and if there no asking you out. ask them out. your a powerful independent women. take control.
good luck.
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So i really really like this guy i mean he's all i think about and its the first time that this has really happend and its just crazy. We have hung out before and we kissed and he was so super sweet to me and he said he liked me a lot so it made me feel great. The thing is i dont know what he wants i dont know if it will be a relationship or what it will be. i really want a relationship because i care about him so much. I don't want to be to blunt about it because im afraid im reading to much into this that in reality he doesnt like me enough or want to be with me. He has been all ive been thinking about for awhile and i don't know what to do because its killing me not knowing whats going to happen with us. He will talk to me and call me on the weekends but during the week its like i have to text him i try not to get to upset about this because he has a life and i get that. Please help me out i know i need to just ask him but how do i do it amd what do i say? (link)
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well if your not blunt about it how are you going to find out. but there might be different ways like having your frineds help you out. like have then casually walk up to him and ask so are you and >your name< going out? and what ever the answer will be she'll tell you
good luck
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i'm not a virgin, but he is. he says i'm the first girl he actually trusts, and really wants to lose his virginity to me. but i feel really bad, because if he lost it to me... i feel like i have nothing to give him. he says it's okay, because he loves me and that's all it matters. he really wants to have sex, and he's trying really hard to hold back from making a move because he wants it to be perfect. and wants it during the summer, where there's no interruptions or any worries. but the thing is, i'm not sure by then... I'LL be the one holding back from it. he thinks the girl on top would be pretty fun.. and honestly, i hate girl on top.. because honestly, i don't know what to do when i'm up there.. do i move side to side, up and down.. what is it? it's like right from under you, how the heck? lol... so i'm guessing that he likes to try different positions, which i'm not really used to. i don't know.. your opinions? (link)
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just ell him how you feel but how would i know. thats all i can say. sorry. just be honest.
good luck.
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I'm going out with this girl that I really fell for and I want her to really like me. I want something slick to say to her to make her smile and say aww. For example we were playing a question game where we go back and forth asking each other questions. She asked "Have you ever seen something that reminded you of something else?" I said "Yeah". She says "When?" I say "Today" She says "What and What?" I said "You an angel." May sound corny but she smiled and I know she felt good. She said "Aww your so sweet I love you." I want to have those all the time. I always want to have something to say, to throw it out there she says "I'm bad at this..." referring to being a girlfriend and "Don't get bored of me." A lot, so next time I see her it would be nice to have something to say, please help me with something sweet and romantic, I love her. (link)
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well all you really do if say somthing from the heart. something you always wanted to tell her but you couldnt say it. becasuse no one can really telll you how you feel about a girl only you can. oh if you want her to say things like awwww. give her little gifts somthing really cute you think she would like. just do whatever feels right at the moment.
good luck
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me and my boyfriend go to the same school, and whenever i'm not with him and he's out with his friends. and if there's a girl or i don't know that's there or a group of girls with a group of guys. i don't know why i feel like he might be cheating on me. because in the beginning of the relationship, i caught him flirting with another girl, but he didn't say he didn't. he admitted the fact that he did, he said he stopped.. but i wouldn't know. pretty stupid i know, i just feel insecure. he says he's IN LOVE with me, and i'm the only person he needs in his life. and that i am his life, he rarely hangs out with his friends now because he only wants to be with me. but why am i still feeling insecure? i keep telling myself, "maybe he's not answering my message cause he's sleeping" or "maybe he's busy" but everytime i happens, i keep thinking he's cheating on me. when it's most likely he's not... he's honest with me all the time. is there a way where i can stop feeling insecure? does he ever think that way? (link)
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well. your probly thinking to much about it. if he's honest you should trust him.and you said he realy hangs out with his frineds anymore because he wants to be with you. thats really sweet. my ex. did the same thing. but we went to different schools but he's like down the street from me. i only saw him once or twice a week. that wasnt good enough for me. i know he loveed me and wouldnt do anything to hert me and he was always completly honest with me. you should trust your boyfrined. but if your instincs are correct maybe hang out with him and his guys frineds get a looka t what he's really doing
good luck
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16/f
im not sure if theres something wrong with me. i cant really figure it out but maybe you can help. i could use some help right now haha
well, my parents act like they hate me sometimes. and i guess they have a reason to. i hate talking to them. like i have a ton of friends and at school im known as the class clown. i have a great boyfriend who i love and i am very social. i love being around people but i just HATE talking to my parents and even being around them. like when they leave the house i am soooooo happy. i just feel like they are ALWAYS talking. they act like annoyong 4 year olds half the time and i tell them that i want my space and they say im rude.
they always say stuff like DID YOU ASK HOW MY DAY WAS? YOU ARE SO SELF CENTERED AND SELFISH. but really im not. i care about my friends so much more than myself and im the one always trying to help everyone. just not my parents. i mean theyre my parents and i love them i guess but really i couldnt care less sometimes. like i really honestly dont care. and i know this might sound bad but its the truth. i pretty much force myself to talk to them sometimes. its really getting to me too because they get so mad at me but i just cant help it. it takes so much to even talk to them because i just hate it. i short answer them and try to stay out of my house as much as possible. i just find them really annoying and i cant take much more of their nagging.
does anyone know whats wrong with me? (link)
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lol. there's nothing wronge with you. your a teenager. were all like that. we want are space. and yeah most of us can careless about are parents because they are anoyying and tlak all the freaken time. this is how i deal with there talking. i take my ipod blast it really loadly until i can't hear them. and just be in my room listing to the music really loadly trying to block everything else out.
good luck.
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do u think that he will get over the fact that I don't want to do those things? I really like him and we have like everything in common it's just that I really don't want to do those things. he knows that I'm not that girl becz I told him but idk. (link)
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well guys are well guys simple doesnt take much to please them. but if he really like you to he will understand. tell him when your comfterble doing that. and if your not he should understand because you said he knows your not like other girls and don't do thats stuff so if he nows he should understand. and if not then tell him you better wait until your ready your not going to give in. good luck.
ps. guys minds work very differently than girls. simple. if they have a promblem right away they'll do anything to reslove it. not just talk about it. talking if for girls. lol
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Why do I,&&alot of other people, look different in pictures then in the mirror?
What do we truly look like,
Tha mirrors image or the cameras?
I would think
the mirrors image is what we truly look
like because, when you see sum1 in person
and then look at that same person in a mirror,
they look the same.. right?
but,
I was reading stuff on google && alot of people
think the cameras more truthful because what
we see in the mirror is reversed..
Soo whats your opinion???
Srry just a curious young female tryin
to geta answer..haha ;] (link)
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well a mirrors you see what yout tecnecly looking at just backwords. its the same thing. and in camera's you can change the picture i think the mirror is more truthfull.
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Theres this guy that i've been crushing on since november. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. I always see him staring at me. During lunch especially. And also, during lunch, I sometimes see his friends turn around and look at me. One time on the lunch line, one of his friends look me straight in the eye with this sort of intese look and looked then away. And his friends are always being funny and making jokes when I see them. But I think they might always be like that. 3 of his friends shout and say random things to me too. lol
And when I see him look at me during lunch he looks for the longest time haha. And in the halls he looks at me too but i cant tell how long because i always look down. I see him a lot in the halls so maybe he just thinks i'm stalking him and thinks i'm weird. Is he interested in me? and why hasn't he talked to me?
Is it just my imagination? because i'm not really that pretty. I'm 14, 5'4" and 165lbs. I dont have terrible skin, but its not that great either. Is it just wishfull thinking? (link)
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you may never know? mybe instead of looking awaygive him hints like msile at him or wave. and if there looking at you i might mean something. but you never really know for sure. maybe in the hall bumb into him "by accedent" lol and say sorry and smile and walk away. or if your not comfterble with that just smile but you have to give him something to hang on. give hints and good luck
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but did he break up with you for not wanting that? (link)
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nope i brock up with him, because it didn't seem like he cared anymore. and i only saw him like 2wice a week maybe not even that because we go to different schools.
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15/f
so I'm close to dating this kid and I'm not the girl to do more than making out or whatever. but he said that when we date like around 5 months he might finger me and I asked if he wanted something in return and he said a handjob. I'm like freaking out because I don't know if I should stick to my morals and say I will never do it or just do it because it's not sex.
also I was wonder like how to give a handjob and how does a boy finger a girl? I know how they do but like do girls have to be shaved down there or no. (link)
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wow. ok. look dont freak out had the same problem. my ex wanted to get his hands down my pants for most of the relation ship. look don't let him control you. your a powerful indepentent woman. lay down some rules tell him no that your not comfterble. and when you are tell him. and no i don't think you have to be shaved down there. guys like that kind of thing. i know its weired right. discusting. but this is what my ex said to me. after he asked my if he can put his hand down my pants." i have hair down there two" freaked me out and wtf did he think that was a turn-on i didnt think so. i took control of our relationshipe show him you knwo what your doing even if you don't. make it look like you are.
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So, I'm 16/f, sophomore. and I am attracted to this frosh (freshman) in one of my classes. we barely ever talk, but I don't know why, I always want to talk to him, or get him to notice me. He's not even THAT cute, he doesn't have perfect skin and what-not, but with him, it doesn't even matter. he has brown short hair and blue eyes. I'm usually not attracted to these types of guys, but he is so ... i dont know. I just can't get him off my mind, and I don't even know like anything about him. well i know some stuff, but I'm always trying to impress him when he looks at me. and hes almost 2 years younger than me. I dont know what to do or how to think or why this is happening haha. I guess I'm just confused? He doesn't show any signs that he likes me or anything ... or at least I can't tell. But, ugh ! I want him to like ask me for my number or somehting. I don't know haha. any feedback to my questions? (link)
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look. one simple answer. guys are simple.you said he's in your class. well ask for a pen or pencil. for homework. then start asking him what are him plans for this weekend. what ever his answer say oh. cool. if he's not busy say somthing like oh im not doing anything either. maybe we could hang out or somthing. but do this at the end of class like when its going to end. so when the bell rings and your done with your gestion aster you say that. get up and leave. you want to keep him thinking.
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hey, this is long so bear with me. so I'm 14/f, turning 15 soon. i have a boyfriend (16/m). it seemed perfect at first but now...i don't know. he goes to a different school and sometimes its hard to see him. also, he has some family problems. and he gets really paranoid and jealous of my guy friends. he also gets reallllllly enraged about something for a little bit then is fine? it bothers me and i don't know what to do. hes really stressed out so i don't want to stress him out more. i really like him but i don't know if i should stay with him because sometimes i feel like shit when he gets mad.
another thing, i have a problem. i already said that my boyfriend gets jealous of my guy friends. well they are really flirty, and i am too, but its just the way i am. i would never do anything or cheat on him. and even if i don't think I'm flirting, people tell me i was. and i like it when other guys like me...don't get me wrong, i don't like them, but i really like it when a guy tells me he likes me. it makes me feel loved and pretty and like I'm a genuinely good person to them, i know this sounds conceded and insecure and i admit, i am, but it may just be me but when a guy tells me he likes me i get really happy. so a guy told me he liked me. Jim is 16/f too, but goes to my school. i think he still likes me and texts me a lot and flirts with me and hes not the most attractive person but hes really nice. and i used to like him, but i swear I'm not a shallow person, but his looks are a real turnoff. his hair is really greasy and i don't know i just don't like his look.
so my question: should i dump my boyfriend? should i give Jim a chance? sorry its long, i really appreciate you spending your time to help me because I'm so confused and i don't know what to do. thanks (link)
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look. don't dump your boyfriend. if you say you reallly like him. stay with him. and these "other guys" you say you flirt with them and even if you dont think you are you frineds say you are. well if thats who you are,okay but just don't give those "other guys" any ideas or show any intrest. just have fun. and your boyfriend the really stressed out one. confert him make him feel like your really there for him. say things like don't worry im here for you. because even though they might act tuff. there really not all they want you to say is stuff like im hear fro you don't worry. everything is going to get better. it makes them feel better. lol
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