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Does he like me?


Question Posted Friday April 24 2009, 9:27 pm

Theres this guy that i've been crushing on since november. I'm a freshman and he's a junior. I always see him staring at me. During lunch especially. And also, during lunch, I sometimes see his friends turn around and look at me. One time on the lunch line, one of his friends look me straight in the eye with this sort of intese look and looked then away. And his friends are always being funny and making jokes when I see them. But I think they might always be like that. 3 of his friends shout and say random things to me too. lol
And when I see him look at me during lunch he looks for the longest time haha. And in the halls he looks at me too but i cant tell how long because i always look down. I see him a lot in the halls so maybe he just thinks i'm stalking him and thinks i'm weird. Is he interested in me? and why hasn't he talked to me?
Is it just my imagination? because i'm not really that pretty. I'm 14, 5'4" and 165lbs. I dont have terrible skin, but its not that great either. Is it just wishfull thinking?


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canada2011 answered Sunday April 26 2009, 6:39 pm:
Well those signs can mean many things. The only thing that is going to clear it up is just confront him about. Or you may even want to start a converstation with him. Talk about TV, Music, Internet. These are many things teens have in common. For some guys looks don't always determine wheather he likes you or not. But also remember that he is a junior and you may not stay togeather to long. But it's better to have loved and loose. Than not have loved at all right?! It's for you to decide.

Good Luck!

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darthrachel answered Saturday April 25 2009, 12:11 pm:
Hmm... Well, truth be told we have almost the same exact problem! I am fourteen, 5'4, and I like a funny junior. But it is a little different, because I am a nerd at my school and I have no chance.


Anyways, this guy is a junior. He'll be graduating in about a year and a half, then chances are, you'll never see him again after he leaves. Then, you would have regretted not taking that chance. You'd think, "What would have happened if I had the guts to ask him?" If this guy were smart, he'd say yes, because you sound like a pretty cool person to me. You sound pretty, and smart. This guy has to be looking at you for a reason. It’s either coincidently each time he looked at you, you had a booger in your nose and was staring at it, (I severely doubt that), or he may be interested. Might as well take a chance before it’s too late. This is what you should do. You should wait for about a week or two and see if he asks you first. If he never asks you, take a chance and ask him. I know asking guys out is scary, but the worst he could do is say no. Also, throw tiny hints at him. Smile when he is looking at you, you know that kind of thing. Also, make sure that he doesn’t have a girl friend. I hope I helped! Good luck.

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Nikhola answered Saturday April 25 2009, 10:59 am:
you may never know? mybe instead of looking awaygive him hints like msile at him or wave. and if there looking at you i might mean something. but you never really know for sure. maybe in the hall bumb into him "by accedent" lol and say sorry and smile and walk away. or if your not comfterble with that just smile but you have to give him something to hang on. give hints and good luck

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Dearbookworm answered Saturday April 25 2009, 10:57 am:
honestly a lot of girls your age think that way of i'm not pretty and no guy would want me. but you know what if he keeps staring at you, and he hasn't made the move try making the move first. i mean the worse thing he could say is no.

when i was your age i didn't think that way either then i stopped to look at myself in the mirror and i said that i have my own natural beauty, no one looks the same especially when they are girls, a lot the pretty girls that you see around school they spend at least an hour on their appearences just to go to school. your are pretty just remember that true beauty comes from with in, and for this guy, if he doesn't like you at least you know but if he doesn't ask why they stare at you if you care at all if he say's no, if he say's yes ask him if he would like to go to the movies with you and a group of friends so this way he doesn't think your asking him out already.
hoped i helped you good luck

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