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he wants sex
i'm not a virgin, but he is. he says i'm the first girl he actually trusts, and really wants to lose his virginity to me. but i feel really bad, because if he lost it to me... i feel like i have nothing to give him. he says it's okay, because he loves me and that's all it matters. he really wants to have sex, and he's trying really hard to hold back from making a move because he wants it to be perfect. and wants it during the summer, where there's no interruptions or any worries. but the thing is, i'm not sure by then... I'LL be the one holding back from it. he thinks the girl on top would be pretty fun.. and honestly, i hate girl on top.. because honestly, i don't know what to do when i'm up there.. do i move side to side, up and down.. what is it? it's like right from under you, how the heck? lol... so i'm guessing that he likes to try different positions, which i'm not really used to. i don't know.. your opinions?
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just ell him how you feel but how would i know. thats all i can say. sorry. just be honest.
good luck.
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I think you're caught up too much in procedure.
Sex isn't about just the process of fucking. Its about being with someone. Sex is a learned skill, if you don't know what you're doing, you should be OK to try new things, and to try to learn to do what you're doing better.
Likewise, its not about giving each other anything other than pleasure. If you decide to say yes, relax. It doesn't have to be perfect. Just make the goal to enjoy the time you spend with him, and to try to figure out how to enjoy it more the next time.
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