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scared! handjob.. getting fingered.
15/f
so I'm close to dating this kid and I'm not the girl to do more than making out or whatever. but he said that when we date like around 5 months he might finger me and I asked if he wanted something in return and he said a handjob. I'm like freaking out because I don't know if I should stick to my morals and say I will never do it or just do it because it's not sex.
also I was wonder like how to give a handjob and how does a boy finger a girl? I know how they do but like do girls have to be shaved down there or no.
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wow. ok. look dont freak out had the same problem. my ex wanted to get his hands down my pants for most of the relation ship. look don't let him control you. your a powerful indepentent woman. lay down some rules tell him no that your not comfterble. and when you are tell him. and no i don't think you have to be shaved down there. guys like that kind of thing. i know its weired right. discusting. but this is what my ex said to me. after he asked my if he can put his hand down my pants." i have hair down there two" freaked me out and wtf did he think that was a turn-on i didnt think so. i took control of our relationshipe show him you knwo what your doing even if you don't. make it look like you are.
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I can't really tell you how to give a hand job because its against the rules of advicenators. But I can tell you this keep a tight grip around his penis and move your hand up and down. Actually just ask him what he likes and what feels good to him.
How does a guy finger a girl? Basically he sticks his fingers inside of your "down there" region in an in and out motion. Just relax and enjoy it.
Should you shave?
If you want to, yes. I suggest you trim though regardless. Some guys lik no pubic hair, others don't. Everyone is different. Just ask your guy what he prefers.
If you are not completely ready or comfortable with doing these things, then don't do it. Is a few moments of ecstasy and pleasing your boyfriend worth your morals? That's the question you should ask yourself.
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