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feeling insecure
me and my boyfriend go to the same school, and whenever i'm not with him and he's out with his friends. and if there's a girl or i don't know that's there or a group of girls with a group of guys. i don't know why i feel like he might be cheating on me. because in the beginning of the relationship, i caught him flirting with another girl, but he didn't say he didn't. he admitted the fact that he did, he said he stopped.. but i wouldn't know. pretty stupid i know, i just feel insecure. he says he's IN LOVE with me, and i'm the only person he needs in his life. and that i am his life, he rarely hangs out with his friends now because he only wants to be with me. but why am i still feeling insecure? i keep telling myself, "maybe he's not answering my message cause he's sleeping" or "maybe he's busy" but everytime i happens, i keep thinking he's cheating on me. when it's most likely he's not... he's honest with me all the time. is there a way where i can stop feeling insecure? does he ever think that way?
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well. your probly thinking to much about it. if he's honest you should trust him.and you said he realy hangs out with his frineds anymore because he wants to be with you. thats really sweet. my ex. did the same thing. but we went to different schools but he's like down the street from me. i only saw him once or twice a week. that wasnt good enough for me. i know he loveed me and wouldnt do anything to hert me and he was always completly honest with me. you should trust your boyfrined. but if your instincs are correct maybe hang out with him and his guys frineds get a looka t what he's really doing
good luck
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In order to be in a healthy relationship, you have to be in tune with, and accept yourself. It seems as if your self esteem could use a little boosting. And nothing is wrong with that.
Wondering whether if there's a "third" person in your relationship once or twice is normal. But it becomes a problem when you're wondering if he's cheating on you a lot. If he is doing nonething that would make him look guilty then accusations shouldn't be made against him. But you also have a female's intuition. As the saying goes "if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then its definitely a duck." If you continue to believe that he is being unfaithful then you should confront him with how you feel. Don't verbally attack him when you let him know you're emotions, but calmly let him in on how you have been feeling.
I hope everything goes well.
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