Okay well, me and my boyfriend started dating on the 5th of this month, but we been bestfriends and talking for like a year now. I REALLY like him, like I know he doesn't have the best personality, but theres something about him that I really really like, But im not sure his feeling the same way like yesterday he told me that he wanted to be single for a little while until he had time for a girlfriend, but his still not sure and may change his mind.. Well after a few hours I spent talking to him after that he said you know how I said I will change my mind well I am because I really like you, but one of his ex-girlfriends had texted me and was like I heard you and Chance broke up and I was like yeah how do you know already? And she said because he said " Hey im single again are you?" I mean I don't know to belive that or not. Well besides that at school were always talking,hugging, and stuff, but we never made out or anything yet, but that's because pretty much the only time I see him is at school and I don't want to make out at school and his always asking me too and I'll be like no, but im different from all his other girl friend's to because his other girl friend's were hoes and they'll pretty much have sex with you in the middle of the hall way, and I think thats what his use too, but im nothing like that like it takes me awhile to make out with someone. I keep thinking about him constantly, but I still don't really know if he feels the same becuase we really don't act like were going out when where together and I want to be more like we are. I guess what im asking is should I stay with him?, How do I try to act more like his girl friend without me making the moves and try to get him too?, and anything else you can add to make me get better about this topic thank you a whole lot [:
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Anthro_Wolf89 answered Friday April 24 2009, 6:29 pm: Well, to be honest you sound like you are too good for him, in my opinion. I don't want to persuade you to stay away from him if you don't want to. So just follow your heart. Something about him doesn't seem right though...
Just something about this, although I could be wrong.
You should talk to him about that text though.
But you never know, there's always three sides to a story. Her side, his side and the truth. :)
If you want to be more like his girlfriend, than you are going to have to make the move. Kiss his cheek, grab his hand, put you head on his shoulder. :)
Good luck!
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