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i like him... am i easy?
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 4:15 pm
so im a 17 year old female :] im graduatin like next month so heres my question.. i like this guy... hes filipino and im latina :] we flirt quite a bit and ive been havin a crush on him... anyways later this week he asked to hang out.. the thing is idk if he wants to chill or if hes expectin me to have sex? i mean.. i like him alot so i wouldnt mind hittin it BUT i dont want to get hurt.. i dont want him to use me... if i make out with him does that make me easy??? UGH im so confused!!! what should i do??? i like him alot but im not one to be played so idk.. someone help me please..
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break up....
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 3:22 am
my first love just broke up with me because he needed to focus on school. it absolutely destroyed me..he says he still loves me..what are the chances of getting back together? and we're still going to prom together and he says he still wants me in his life...what should i do? i'm still so in love with him =/
17/f
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modern day romeo & juliet.
Posted Monday April 27 2009, 12:48 am
In short, there is a guy that I still really care about. We met when I was in 9th grade, had a complicated relationship for a year, then my mom decided that she didn't like him and 'banned' me from him. But we continued meeting, she found out, we had a blow out, and then I ended up cutting off all connections with him. It's been a year since I've talked to him & I still really miss him and love him & he's been trying really hard to try and meet me but I've been ignoring him the best I can. I really don't want him to graduate high school thinking that I don't want to talk to him. I really miss him and I want to start seeing him again desperately. But then there's my mom. I don't know what to do. She won't listen to me; she doesn't ca...
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Why is he so mean?
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 11:13 pm
im 15/f and i have a crush on my bffs brother. hes cute (well to me at least) really good at sports, funny, and most of thetime immature but in a funny way. sometimes we would stare at eachothe for a little bit, but that is totally not a clue at all. he doesnt talk to that many girls and has never had a girlfriend before (i havent ever had a boyfriend before either) but he is totally not gay. he ignores the girls at schooln and only talks to the guys. when i go home with my bff he is always making rude comments about me. i mean ALWAYS! like he will call me a man or pot smoker (even tho i dont and would never do anything bad) you know just stuff to get on my nerves.(ps: i dont look like a man or anything like that hes just always really mean...
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Breaking his Heart
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 10:35 pm
17/f - myself
17/m - my boyfriend
My boyfriend believes he is in love with me. He thinks I have changed his life and he would never be the same without me. He has a history of depression. Before we break up (probably in a few months) I would like to show him we can both benefit from having been in a relationship and that when it ends, it doesn't have to be devastating. Is it possible to change his view on the situation?
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who to go to prom with..please help
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 10:03 pm
my boyfriend just broke up with me because he didn't want relationship stress but told me he wanted to be my best friend but it would take some time obviously for me to get over him. my prom is in 2 weeks and i have this friend that doesn't have a date. he's a really fun guy and id have fun with him but im worried ill ruin his night because i won't stop thinking about my ex boyfriend during slow songs and stuff. my ex boyfriend said he would still go with me and i still hope for that small chance he'll fall for me again and realize he made a mistake of breaking up with me...who do you think i should bring?
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How do I get him to like me?
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 4:33 pm
I like a dude, and I'm a nerd. (He knows I like him by the way.) How do I get the guy to notice and/or like me? Thanks. :)
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boyys
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 2:56 pm
so i just started texting this guy in my school, we have been in the same school for 3 years but never really talk and he got my number from my friend. so we texted for 4 days straight, just getting to know each other and then one night we were playing truth and he asked me who i like, and i truthfully i have a lil crush on him .. so i was like no one really , i liek this one guy a bit. and hes like who is the guy and i told him it was me and i was like who do you like . he responded by saying this other girl and he told me he kinda likes me. so we have school tomorow, hes not in my class but i see him in the hallway alot . so my queestion is do i go up and talk to him or just smile .. orr...?? and what do i talk about it if i do talk to hi...
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whats up with him? :(
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 2:05 pm
18-female.
well me and this guy (ben) have been friends for about five years now. i've always had a thing for him, but thats another story. well if i text him he will always text back. BUT last night, i slept at my brothers house with his friend (whose like my second brother) and this morning i guess they took my phone when i fell asleep and was texting him but he never said anything back. i was so mad at them and so i texted ben today and was like what the hell did my brothers say to you. tell me now. and he didnt say anything back either? i'm a little sad. i dont know whats up with him. he's never NOT texted me back. now maybe he thinks it was actually me who "pretended" to be my brothers because he saw me leave my cousin...
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holding him back
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 2:05 am
I really love my boyfriend, I really do. I care about him so much... But, I've noticed that we have different future plans. And all he talks about, is being together for the longest time. He says he wants to marry me, and I'm the only person he wants to have a family with. Honestly, that sounds pretty good to me. But, later on... I asked him what he wanted to do with his life in the future. He wants to go to a college in New York, with his music. And me, I want to stay where I am for a while and move out when I'm around 20 - 22 years old, and maybe try to study in California or abroad. When I told him that, he started crying... He said he didn't want to go to New York anymore, and he wanted to be where ever I was. He said I was worth his li...
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him
Posted Sunday April 26 2009, 12:39 am
hey I'm 13 and like I've never had a bf. And sometimes I just feel so lonely. Most of my friends have boyfriends and they just seem so happy. And well I like this guy we talk just a bit over aim but thing is he's popular with people which makes it hard to talk to him during school but I just don't know I really want a boyfriend and sometimes I jus feel so disconected from the world like three times this week when my friends have said my name people are like who? And I just sit there like this is so depressing so I need ur help how to stand out .... Just something to make me feel like somebody cause right now I'm just like what to do with my life
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IM SUCH A HOE!
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 10:40 pm
ok so sorry if its long!
So theres always a group in school! and theres a boy lets call him [F) alot of girls dated him! girl after girl after girl! i date him! but i dont like him anymore! now im dating his bestfriend! lets call him (A] he dumped me because,he thought i still liked (F] and that i used [A) to get over (F] but i didtn! but me and [A) got back together today! my friend is mad that we got back together because she said that he was gonna hurt me again nd break my heart once again! nd that im gonna go crying again! i dont knoe what to do! he keeps on telling me he loves me! nd tht he'll never hurt me! but my friends dont believe it! there not happy at all! nd i cant even mention his name! there telling mee to cho...
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topics with crush!
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 7:30 pm
what are some things to talk about with your crush?
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Is he trying to get into my pants?
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 3:12 pm
I started talking to this guy (jake) that I go to school with a few weeks ago. We really hit it off and now we've been going out for a week. I really like him a lot and I can tell he really likes me too. My friends and people that know him at school tell me to be careful around him and telling me that he's a pervert and he wants sex and stuff like that. He does not seem like the kind f guy that these people are telling me he is. He is really sweet and hasn't even tried to pressure me into anything. I trust him be with all these things that I've heard about him it makes me nervous. Do you think he's just putting on an act to get in my pants? I plan to confront him about what I've heard but I'm not sure how to bring it up. What do you guys think?
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ugh...I'm an idiot :/
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 3:04 pm
Ok... I basically just led some guy on... I met him on myspace and he added me because he was just adding random people and I live in the same town as him. Well I always talk to everyone who adds me... I don't like adding people as friends until I at least have one conversation with them. So we started talking and all and he was nice and then we were texting. Today is saturday and we've only been texting since about tuesday. Apparently I'm his girlfriend now :/ I'm sooo confused because I told him I didn't want him to call me his girlfriend yet because I had only agreed to go on ONE date just to MEET him. I told him I'd just gotten out of a bad relationship and everything and he said he understood and would wait and stuff. Then he started b...
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Whats with the bases
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 1:44 pm
When someone asks you "how far have you gone with your BF/GF" I don't get the whole "bases" responce.
Like what does 1st base mean? And 2nd? 3rd? And is there a 4th base?
Thanks! I know I sound stupid but I've been wondering about it.
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Should I be insulted?
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 12:56 pm
I'll keep this one short and sweet. I am a fourteen-year-old freshman girl. Well, I have a friend who apparently is bi-sexual, and asked out one of his friends who is a boy, and the friend said he didn't want to spoil their friendship, so it was dropped. But then, about a month later, my friend asked me out. Should I be insulted? I mean, I am in no way against gays or anything, but it is a little... I don't know. I do dress kind of boyish I will admit. I dress in zip-up hoodies that I find on sale in the men’s department, but I didn't know it was THAT bad. Should I take a hint, and change myself? Or, am I just over reacting?? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for the help! :)
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How old is too old?
Posted Saturday April 25 2009, 11:46 am
Hey everyone. My name is Rachel, and I am fourteen, fifteen in June. I need help. Well, I have a HUGE crush on a guy at school. He's incredibly handsome, and hilarious. (My two need-haves, when it comes to guys.) But, here’s the problem. I'm a freshman he's a junior. He's 17 in May. It's not a problem for me, and he has a few Ex's in my grade, so it's not a problem for him either. But my mom is a whole other story. Well, I had transferred to my school at the beginning of the school year, and my mom had casually asked if I had any boys on the brain. I told her about... Well let's call him "T", and she said, "Well, you know he's too old for you, right?" I had no reply to that. That made me a little mad. I mean technicall...
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Very complex situation..
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 11:46 pm
To start off, this will be extremely long. I will appreciate it greatly if you take the time to read this, and tell me your feedback. So here it goes.. (Ready?)
19/f
This is a long distance relationship.
Well, it started when our 1 year anniversary hit (Nov, 2008). I call him to give him hints about it and he finally figures it out. So I ask don't you care? He says only 2 year anniversaries and up matter.
So it hit my birthday, which was April 6th. He promised me multiple times he'd call me at the set time of 8:30. He doesn't have a cell phone, just a landline right now. So I said ok. I waited at the phone for two hours then suddenly give him a call at 10:30. He picks up and I yelled at him why th...
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i want to ask him out
Posted Friday April 24 2009, 8:48 pm
i like this guy and we have had eye contact on and off.. i use to see him regularly then stopped then again then stopped... i could however just be there randomly to conduct my "devious" plan :p
mind you we've talked once before and it was very formal and work related nothing personal or casual and then we haven't talked for a while. long story short he works for my college library and i asked him once for a paper clip and there was a little flirting going on... needles to say that was the last time we interacted.. i was thinking when the semester ends i'll pass by and give him a box of paperclips and say thank you to kind of initiate something but my mind is telling me not to.
i am kind of shy and ...
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