I like a dude, and I'm a nerd. (He knows I like him by the way.) How do I get the guy to notice and/or like me? Thanks. :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sami143 answered Wednesday April 29 2009, 12:24 pm: Well first off dont think of your self as a nerd. Have confidence. tell yourself that you are beautiful and show it. Guys like a girl with confidence. Start talking to him about music food movies and just things that he likes to do. And if he ends up not liking you, dont get discouraged, if he doesnt like you its his loss, he is missing out on a great girl =] because i guarantee you that if you star having confidence in yourself that other guys will notice you just have to get out there =] Hope i helped ♥ Good luck! [ Sami143's advice column | Ask Sami143 A Question ]
NoCandy answered Monday April 27 2009, 11:37 pm: You have to have the right attitude, and by attitude I mean lots of self-confidence. You say you're a "nerd", but there's no reason to slap a label on yourself. You're just as cool as anyone else. You should be able to just strike up a conversation with him. Think of it like making friends. If you don't have problems making friends with "dudes" then it shouldn't be a problem. Just tell yourself that you're just trying to make a friend, and act like you would making a new friend who is a guy, or even a new friend who is a girl. Don't act too interested. You say he knows you like him, but you have to make him wonder. [ NoCandy's advice column | Ask NoCandy A Question ]
Darby answered Monday April 27 2009, 3:46 am: Find out what types of things he's into. What he likes to do and whatnot. Then talk to him about these things. Hopefully this will create a good conversation. Ask questions about music, movies, and other things that most people are interested in. If things go well, see if he wants to go see a movie or do something fun. Perhaps with a group at first, then if things go well, by yourselves.
Hope this helps.
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