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i like him... am i easy?
so im a 17 year old female :] im graduatin like next month so heres my question.. i like this guy... hes filipino and im latina :] we flirt quite a bit and ive been havin a crush on him... anyways later this week he asked to hang out.. the thing is idk if he wants to chill or if hes expectin me to have sex? i mean.. i like him alot so i wouldnt mind hittin it BUT i dont want to get hurt.. i dont want him to use me... if i make out with him does that make me easy??? UGH im so confused!!! what should i do??? i like him alot but im not one to be played so idk.. someone help me please..
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I don't think that hanging out means having sex with a guy. I also don't think that's what he expects from you.
He probably just wants to hang out and maybe see a movie or go to the mall or something. Making out doesn't make you easy.
However, if you're quick to jump into bed with him and have sex, then you would be considered easy. But for liking him & wanting to make out, no.
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i dont think makinq out makes you easy.
butt sex on thee other hand miqht. i mean , just qet to know him better. and you miqht wanna 'hit it' before you qraduate. butt then you miqht not even see him aqain. and your just bound to qet hurt / played.
hope i helped.
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I definitely don't think you should have sex with him right away if it turns out that he does want to. Wait until you are in a relationship for a while, that way you know he is all about you and only you. We can't tell if he is wanting sex, he might honestly just be wanting to hang out for right now. You should go hang out with him and let him know how you feel about him. Try not to hook up with him yet. Even if he wants and you want it right now, you'll risk getting hurt because you don't know each others' intentions right now. Let him know that you like him, but try to take things slow to start off with.
As for making out with him equally you being easy, it's hard to say. It depends because every one has a different opinion as to what is considered sleazy and what isn't. Just try hanging out with him and going with the flow. If you can, do something that requires you to be in public such as; go see a movie, go out to dinner, hang out with some friends, etc. That way you can get to know each other in person without having the pressures that you might get while hanging out alone in the privacy of a home.
Hope this helps and good luck :D
-Darby
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Hanging out does NOT mean sex. That can be seen as easy. Save the sex for when you're in a decent, committed relationship.
Sure, hang out with him. but like you said, if you don't want to get hurt, don't bother getting too close to him unless you know for a fact he likes you and only you.
We can't tell you if he's a player - just use your brains and don't do anything you'll regret. Be wary of him - but also have a nice time!
For now, work on taking your friendship to another level. Better still - tell him you like him and see what he says!
Good luck.
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