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ugh...I'm an idiot :/
Ok... I basically just led some guy on... I met him on myspace and he added me because he was just adding random people and I live in the same town as him. Well I always talk to everyone who adds me... I don't like adding people as friends until I at least have one conversation with them. So we started talking and all and he was nice and then we were texting. Today is saturday and we've only been texting since about tuesday. Apparently I'm his girlfriend now :/ I'm sooo confused because I told him I didn't want him to call me his girlfriend yet because I had only agreed to go on ONE date just to MEET him. I told him I'd just gotten out of a bad relationship and everything and he said he understood and would wait and stuff. Then he started being really sweet and he put up on his myspace how I make him happy and stuff :/ I didn't want to seem mean so I did the same. Yeah I know, I'm stupid to have done that... So now, after the "date" which was TERRIBLE because I'm really shy and so was he, he thinks we're boyfriend and girlfriend??? :/ I mean... I didn't tell him the date was terrible... I actually told him it was amazing -_- he asked me to my face how it went for me and I panicked... so yeah I've basically led this poor guy on and I DON'T WANT TO DATE HIM. I'm pretty much avoiding him right now. He doesn't go to my school so the only way I'd ever see him is if him and I planned a date or something... but I just really don't like being supposedly taken :/ I hate getting boyfriends because I seriously suck at committing... please help me :( I know I should have just told him the truth and not encouraging him by returning his sweetness... but I just really don't want to date anyone right now :/ plus he's like 17 which is about 3 years older then me because I JUST turned 15 about a week ago. I feel really bad :( help please?
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yes, the age doesn't matter, but the relationship between you and him is importnt.
you should've told him the truth on how you feel, because it will just continue giving you problems and will make you become more problemtic just about a guy that doesn't know your true feelings. If he disagrees with your opinion, then find another guy that will understand you. And dont just go adding random people on MySpace, because it could be dangerous at times, like for example, that guy you are chatting with might be innocent when chatting with you on tagged, but whn he decides to meet you in person, you might not know he is a murderer. Not all people are good, and that might just happen to you the next time you do it. So better be careful with your desicions.
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alrighty, congratulations on meeting your first internet creep-ass. its amazing how the internet has opened up such incredible social possibilities for the more lecherous members of the human race. when I was 17 and found out the girl I was dating was 15, I popped smoke and got the hell ut of there. thats sign one of a creep ass. he wasn't randomly selecting people, he was looking for a nice little girl. or I'm over reacting. delete him as a friend, and don't return his calls, unless he knows where you live, in which case, well, expect to have to send him packing at some point. you're not an idiot, he's at least just really immature and hasty. next time, don't add anybody random, unless you can fight your way out of duct tape and zip-ties. thats where you went wrong, don't talk to these people, one of them might like to skin and eat little girls like you.
or you could run into whacked out war vets like me.
good luck little girl.
-gunner
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One, I wanna say YOUR NOT A IDIOT!!
Unfortanitely, us teenagers are full of misstakes. Probally, most of are teen years will be spending making misstakes. It's just how life is. Sad fact really...being I'm also 15, I feel your pain.
As for 'Mr.MySpace', if you will.
Sounds like he took it wrong. Just some ideas and what'll happen: Avode him= he'll think your cheating which'll lead to (90% chance of) no friendship at all, Repeat…basiclly myspace/text him tell'in him you don't want a realationship & are still get'in over your last one- but in a more less emotional, short run-by way=he probally will have a fit about talking about feelings, like a semi-normal guy. If anything just repeat over&over "I'm sorry,not interrested" or pretend he never exsisted maybe even mean, when someone asks act clueless that kinda thing... Sorry, if I didn't help.
•_• lily
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I don't think that is really your fault. You have been friendly with him and agreed to meet up with him, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything. Loads of people talk over the internet, get on well and meet up, and it doesn't mean they're more than friends.
You're not wrong to have done this and assumed he would just see it as a friendly thing. Even if you both referred to your meeting up as a date, most people wouldn't refer to themselves as a couple after one date.
However, now he does think you are together, and to carry on letting him think that WOULD be leading him on.
Explain to him that you just want to be friends. Don't say anything like, "because I've just got out of a bad relationship", because then he'll think he has a chance with you once he's waited a bit. Just quite clearly say, "I'm sorry, but I just want to be friends with you."
Yes, he might be upset, but it will be worse for both of you if you just carry on.
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Hi,
Okay so everything got out of hand. There is nothing you can do about that now. The only thing that you can do is to let him down now before he gets anymore emotionally attached. It might hurt him but think how better off you both will be afterward. Just tell him kindly, " I like you alot you're a great guy, I think you're a great friend and I just want to keep it that way" Hopefully this will leave him will minimal scars.
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