When someone asks you "how far have you gone with your BF/GF" I don't get the whole "bases" responce.
Like what does 1st base mean? And 2nd? 3rd? And is there a 4th base?
Thanks! I know I sound stupid but I've been wondering about it.
well, like the other person said, it's mainly the same thing. except some people call it "french, feel, finger, fuck." (1, 2, 3, 4).
first is any type of kissing, second is just *feeling* around the body, third is anything oral, and fourth is finally, sex. [ japm's advice column | Ask japm A Question ]
ThirdQED answered Sunday April 26 2009, 2:26 am: Hello,
The "bases" here are like in baseball, and no, there is not a 4th base, but there is a "home run."
So it's basically:
1st Base: French Kissing
2nd Base: Touching Private Places (e.g. breast, penis, etc.)
3rd Base: Oral Sex
Home Run: Intercourse (going all the way--1st, 2nd, 3rd, and have sex)
These are the universal means of the bases, but a few people might give you slightly different answers. These are what most people understand them as.
Also, careful when you ask the question and/or answer it. Some girls don't really like it when the boys answer like that. They said that it makes the whole relationship seems like a game. And the object of that game is to see how far you could get, not about love.
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