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break up....
my first love just broke up with me because he needed to focus on school. it absolutely destroyed me..he says he still loves me..what are the chances of getting back together? and we're still going to prom together and he says he still wants me in his life...what should i do? i'm still so in love with him =/
17/f
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Be friends with him.
Nothing more.
Nothing less.
At least until hes ready for a relationship again.
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Hi. It sounds like your boyfriend is being very practical and mature. The end of the school year is near, and he can see that this is the time to really get serious and get good grades. If he is graduating this year, this could affect his chances of getting into a good college, and essentially, affect the rest of his life. He is actually being a really great guy, trying to be sure that he has a way to support you in the future if you stay together as adults. There is one way you can prove just how much you love him: tell him you understand that he needs to do this and that you'll stay faithful. That you will look forward to summer plans together. Another thing: if you have any classes together, ask him to study (and REALLY DO study) those subjects, then leave him alone so he can concentrate on his other classes. This would show that you appreciate his hard work, and would give you some quality time together, show him that you also take school as seriously as he does, and that in the future if he needs to do something important that you are going to be someone who will be there for him. Look at this period in your lives as a growing, maturing time. Show him just how loyal and strong you can be for him. Good luck!
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