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Presents for GUYS


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:44 pm

I'm nearly 20 and in my first serious relationship...

I've never had to shop for a boyfriend and this has been causing some worry!

Guys, what do you like relieving from your girls?

I want it to be from the heart, and unique... but something he'll actually LOVE.

Help?

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Boost my SEX drive???


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:34 pm

I'm 19, female.

I'm looking to boost my sex drive... as far as wanting to have sex more and being able to get more wet naturally?

Is there a way to do this naturally? Exercises?

Or a vitamin, or pill?

I'm in a long term relationship and I love my boyfriend very much but I can sometimes sense his frustration when it takes so long to get me going.

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Masturbation vs. SEX


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:30 pm

I'm 19, female, and a virgin.

I'm a bit worried... I plan on losing my virginity to my long time boyfriend soon. I can tell it's headed there and I'm starting to feel more and more ready. HOWEVER, I have some fears...

I masturbate occasionally... but not much... it just doesn't do much for me. I can't really get myself wet and me touching ME doesn't really turn me on. I often just can't get off to fantasy land because I'm just too preoccupation with how frustrated I am and how sub-par it feels...

But... I feel like sex will be much better?


It it common for a girl not to be able to get too turned on when she's on her own but still have amazing sex with a partner because ther...

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Does it seem like he likes me back?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 10:25 pm

12F, Okay so theres this guy at my school and i like his personality A LOT and hes really cute right so today we had a silent dismisal for this thing going on at my school. The busses had beeen late and we were talking and tazzering (like tickling) each other and then i go to give him a high five with both hands and he grabbs them and huggs me and touched my ass he has done this before. He had also been play fighting with me and grabbed my leg and was walking around playing with me not in a sexuall way.
P.S.he is 13.

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I like someone who will never like me back =/


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 6:38 pm

ALrighty well Im 13/f and I have had 2 boyfriend before but all I ever did with them and I layed the barriers was we kissed and thats it. Nothing further. I have liked this guy who we can call Sam since the beginning of the summer (he is 12/m). We flirted and talked all summer and on August 19th, we admitted to each other that we liked each other more than a friend. The next day, I left for my cottage. I got no reception up north so I had to due with not talking to him for a week. When I got back from my cottage, he started ignoring me. Im not sure what happened. It was as if I didnt exist or was invisible or something =/ I really started to like him more and more each day. I reread all of our old conversations from the summer and cried mys...

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Babysitting: Should I put my name on a babysitting flyer?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 6:28 pm

Why shouldnt I put my name on a babysitting flyer?


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Is it weird that I'm usually only attracted to guys outside my ethnicity?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 3:10 pm

I'm black, and for some reason most of the guys I crush on end up being white. I've grown up in diverse areas, but with mainly white people and asians. My family is African, and most of the other black people I've known growing up have been either extended family or family friends, so none of the guys would be seen as potential romantic interests. I did like one guy in elementary school, but he ended up switching schools. And someone like Jimi Hendrix attracts me too, cause I'm into "underground" music and he just seemed to be with that whole mentality, too. I've been attracted to a few black guys I've seen at concerts, too, but unfortunately I only see those kinds of guys at concerts, and then I'd be too afraid to approach them u...

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If my dad is having an affair... should I tell my mom? Advice please!!


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 1:47 pm

I have recently been told by my 13 yr old sister that my dad is having an affair, she knew this because she read a conversation on skype with a woman and I read that conversation myself yesterday and from what I read he is having an affair but I don't know whether i should tell my step-mum as i fear she wont believe me and I feel I may create more problems. I am constantly thinking about it as I am always around my step-mum or my dad and I don't know what to do. My friends think I should tell my dad I know and tell him to stop or ill tell her but i dont think that is right, I need some serious advice, please help!

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friend doesn't asnswering the cellphon when I call her .She leaved


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 1:25 pm

so my friend leaved the school before 2 weeks.I am not her bestfriends but I am considering her as my sister
she is older than all of the class because she fails alot but no one knows that except me and her bestfriends .When I was in middle school she was on my class but now she isn't. In secondary school I use to write to her the exams and give her it in the break ,because we take the exam before her class by one period or two .Also her class teachers is my teachers too. I do that because I know accidently that she is old than us and I don't want her to fail again
but she absented before 2 weeks until now so when I ask her bestfriends they said to me :we don't know why she is absent and I kept asking about her and calling her...

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Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:57 am

last year in grade 6 a guy named shane asked me out at after care where we were by the junior side he went on his knees and asked me out i said no because i would have to tell my parents and one of them would have to come with but i like him so much


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What the hell is this? What is going on with my period?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 11:30 am

**WARNING** WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ IS VERY GRAPHIC IN NATURE AND MAY DISTURB SOME READERS. USE YOUR OWN DISCRETION!!

I've been on BC for two months now. It was about three days before I was supposed to start taking my placebo pills but I had already started bleeding. It wasn't regular blood, it was brown but it was steady and kept coming. I didn't think anything of this since my body is still getting used to the pill. Anyways, the other night (5 days after my placebo pills started) I went to the bathroom and there was something in the pad I was wearing. It looked like a pile of discharge or something. I used a napkin to pick it up and studied it and determined that it was a bunch of skin. It was squishy but solid in form,...

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Ex Boyfriend: I am helping my ex cheat on his new girlfriend...


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 10:34 am

Me and my Ex have been broken up for a month or two. He has a new girlfriend and they have been dating for like a month now. When We all are at the same place he pays no attention to me. Like this one time at a football game he was up in the bleachers and I looked up and smiled, he smiled back. His Gf wasn't with him so he did it back. He wants me to do stuff with him. We've already done other stuff while they're dating. I don't want to tell her but I would hate to be in her place and be cheated on. What do I do? Age 13, 8th Grade.

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My Bestfriend and I: He is my crush also!


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 10:24 am

My Bestfriend is also my crush. We've gone to school together since elementary. In 6th grade he asked me out and I said yes. A couple weeks after i broke up with him because i wasnt ready for a relationship. Now in 8th grade, Im starting to have really deep feelings for him. He knows I like him but he doesn't feel the same way. What should I do? Should I wait for him? I'm 13 year old Girl and in 8th Grade. He's A Boy, 14, and in 8th also.

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Why do I keep having these evil dreams, hearing things and sleep paralysis?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 3:30 am


I can't move in my sleep. I have scary dreams about the devil & demons.I'm a christian and believe in god. I had a dream that I was marrying the devil once and it scared the crap out of me and I also had a dream that I was in hell and I and another were my house was burning and I could not move and a voice told me I was going to hell and a devil and all these people talking about hell. Then I was with my mom dad and sister in a town and they all died. I was on the ground and people ran around and fire was everywhere. I woke up scared. I've had these dreams a couple of nights in a row and I've even prayed before I slept.

It was as if I was in a coma like state, awake, but not able to move or talk, I tried to speak...

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25/F is it a coincidence or something more?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 2:50 am

So I reached out to my ex,we've been broken up since july 2011-she dumped me,just to say what's up and surprisingly we have been talking/texting everyday now going on 2 weeks. But it seems like everytime I tell her something sweet I.e. I still love you,I remembered it because its about you,or that's something about you that I fell for, etc..there is a noticeable halt in her response. Like I won't hear from her for hours and when she does respond its something completely different than where we left off. Is it a coincidence she gets busy/distracted when I happen to say these things or am I making her uncomfortable or is there some underlying thought that she may have the same feelings and just doesn't know how to respond??

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Non-hormonal birth control pillls? IUD?


Posted Friday November 9 2012, 12:11 am

I'm 21 years old and I've been on the pill since I was a freshman in college, I'm now a senior in college.

For about two years I was on ortho tri cylen lo and it was fine for a while but then I noticed it started giving me horrible pms and I would be so irritable atleast a week after my period.

The end of my sophmore year my doctor changed my birthcontrol to Yaz and I've been on that since and I am on it now. I gained weight from it (not a crazy amount) but I've noticed it's been much harder to lose weight while on this pill.

I've heard a lot of people drop weight easier when they aren't on the pill or when they stop taking it.

I didn't have an issue with weight loss on Ortho Tri ...

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how to make a Neil Diamond action figure for free


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 11:26 pm

i am hoping to make an action figure of Neil Diamond for free so any suggestions maybe

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Its like i dont even know myself


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 11:15 pm

Okay, so ive always been this happy , never mean cheerful girl. Sometimes i would even keep stuff to myself & let people step over me.. All of a sudden ive been speaking my mind alot & all of a sudden the friends i usally hang out with are really annoying me. I dont even feel happy anymore. Ive been in a mad/sad kind of weird mood. I've been judgeing people alot. I dont like that. Its like i turned into a whole diffrent person out of the blue. I have so much bottled up in me. I dont feel like i can talk about this to anyone. I dont even feel like i have friends honestly. Sometimes i just feel like crying but i dont because i keep telling myself that theres no reason to cry. What should i do not to feel this way? ): btw im 16

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Did i make a mistake by having sex with my boyfriend?


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 9:48 pm

Okay so im 15 and i went over to my boyfriend's house (of about 5 months) and we started making out and his parents werent home and so he took my shirt off which is normal, and then he took my bra off, also normal (for us) and then he unzipped his pants and i sucked his dick and then he fingered me then he took his shirt off and things got realy heated and long story short we ended up having sex and im not sure how i feel about. I mean he seemed to enjoy it, but it hurt me. He's a good guy and we are still together (2 weeks later) i haven't seen him yet, but we've been texting and he wants to "see me" meaning sleep with me again this weekend and i think i want to, i just don't know if i should. Did i make a mistake??

P.S. he is 16 and was also a virgin before this

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How do I convince my cousin to leave her abusive & controlling boyfriend ?


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:57 pm


She's been with this guy for 6 months and he's very controlling and he cheats on her with his ex girlfriend. He doesn't like for her to have family over their apartment and he doesn't like for her to hang around her very close friends. He has been abusive to her multiple times, one of the times he stalked her to a grocery store and hit her and stole her purse, she had witnesses but she never pressed charges, she got back with him. Yesterday he choked her & hit her and broke the window out of her apartment and trashed it. She called the police and pressed charges, now she wants to drop them. today she wants to get back with him. He has stalked her numerous times and hit her while she was places with friends. He verbally abuses he...

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