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I like someone who will never like me back =/
ALrighty well Im 13/f and I have had 2 boyfriend before but all I ever did with them and I layed the barriers was we kissed and thats it. Nothing further. I have liked this guy who we can call Sam since the beginning of the summer (he is 12/m). We flirted and talked all summer and on August 19th, we admitted to each other that we liked each other more than a friend. The next day, I left for my cottage. I got no reception up north so I had to due with not talking to him for a week. When I got back from my cottage, he started ignoring me. Im not sure what happened. It was as if I didnt exist or was invisible or something =/ I really started to like him more and more each day. I reread all of our old conversations from the summer and cried myself to sleep almost everynight. (Please no comments of my age and dating people). He ignored me for a bit more than a month. On October 5th, I got off the bus with one of my friends and he got off at the same stop with his friend. We all ended up meeting at the park and what ended up happening is that I sat on his lap on a swing since there was none left and he had his arms around me and we were laughing and smiling as if he didnt ignore me for the past month. He walked me home after it got late and held my hand the entire way. He also gave me a hug. I didnt think it was possible for us to get so close within a few hours. That whole weekend, we hung out. But, on October 9, he mustve changed his mind again. He ignored me again. Im not even sure why!!! He is always on my mind and I think about him day and night. I look at the pictures we took together everynight and try to sleep but have to cry myself to sleep all the time. It hurts me to see him at school so happy with his friends. But then, the other day, I was hanging out with my friends (the popular group) and we were walking over to these benches at our school to sit and Sam, and two of his friends walked over and sat on one of them and these younger grades were on the other. We decided to sit on the ground instead. Then, Sam decided to throw a rock at me and get my attention. We threw rocks back and forth and he was smiling at me and laughing and I saw him like he was when we hung out that weekend and in the summer. He left for a hockey tournament yesterday and now I just dont know what to do. Im chasing my dreams though no matter what. I have a good feeling about him. My friends say to wait one more year until highschool but I dont wanna. I like Sam alot! So what do u think I should do? I have seriously given you alot of info here so I need some opinions? Please help!!!
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Hello!!!
It might not be that he doesn't like you back, it sounds like he does, but you won't know where he stands unless you ask him about his feeling for your himself. I know that a lot of girls want the guy to come up to him, but maybe it's best that you ask him because it seems you can't wait anymore. I would suggest getting him alone, and putting yourself out there. It's a risk, but it's better to know. Keep an eye on the one minute he ignores you, and the next your best friends. You can ask him why he does that, but don't say it like, "Why do you ignore me sometimes?", say, "I get the feeling that sometimes you don't want to speak to me, did I do something wrong?" I hope it works our amazingly well, and remember that you deserve the world, so if he doesn't like you, then he's blind :)
Best Wishes & Good Luck!
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