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My Bestfriend and I: He is my crush also!
My Bestfriend is also my crush. We've gone to school together since elementary. In 6th grade he asked me out and I said yes. A couple weeks after i broke up with him because i wasnt ready for a relationship. Now in 8th grade, Im starting to have really deep feelings for him. He knows I like him but he doesn't feel the same way. What should I do? Should I wait for him? I'm 13 year old Girl and in 8th Grade. He's A Boy, 14, and in 8th also.
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When things are meant to happen, they simply happen. It's one of the hardest lessons one has to learn. Unfortunately, if he doesn't feel the same way then there's not much you can do to change his mind. If you're meant to be with one another it will happen, but for now, as hard as it may be, you just have to let it go. You also have to realize if he doesn't like you then he doesn't know what he's missing. He's missing out on an amazing young woman, who is worth loving, and if he can't see that then he's not worth it. You have a lot of years a head to find someone who appreciates you for who you are. You won't have to wait for them, it will just happen.
So for now... i would say focus on being yourself, and truly realize how wonderful you are. Maybe he will see it then, but you can't force anything to happen, or anyone to like you, and you shouldn't wait around, because your a.) to cool to do that and b.) have too much self respect for that. One day a guy will see it, whether it will be him, or someone else even more special then him, and then letting things go, and letting fate do it's thing will seem so much more worth it, then waiting around for a boy who can't see that you're a diamond among pebbles.
Good Luck & Best Wishes!!!
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