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soo yeah
Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 3:03 pm
so there is this guy, that long story short, i wanted for like 5 months, and then he broke up with his girlfriend for me. well. we aren't official because he cares what other people think and doesnt want them to say bad things about us. so its been like 1 week and 1/2 maybe 2 weeks since they broke up and i told him that i would wait but not forever. and like, on friday, i hung out with him, my best friend and her boyfriend at her boyfriend's house. It was reallly fun. we were goofing around outside for a little playing basketball. and then we went inside, chilled and hung out and talked. well. we were all talking on the couch when my best friend and her bofriend "leave the room" to go get "water" [they wanted me and the...
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wedding invitations
Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 1:14 pm
I'm 33. My gf is 28. My girlfriend and I have been talking about marriage, and invitations to the wedding came up. She wants to invite a couple she had a three-way with. It was a one time thing, they are friends today, and she works with wife of this couple. Here's the kicker. She is the godmother to their child, and they are still good friends and have a "family" like relationship because of the said godchild. I have put my foot down and have said no to having them at the wedding. I just can't imagine having an ex-lover at the wedding, even though they just did it once. I really just couldn't stand having the guy there, saying something like, "ha, I tapped that." I know, it sounds stupid, but its the truth. A...
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All about sex?
Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 12:42 pm
How do I know if my relationship is just revolved around sex?
18/f
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Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 3:28 am
I love my boyfriend but I don't know how to say "I love you" to him. We have been dating for a month now and I think he feels the same way about me but he has never said "I love you". He calls me "my love" and stuff like that and I say that too, but thats different. How do I approach this conversation and say "I love you"?
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Posted Sunday May 17 2009, 3:24 am
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a month. We hang out almost everyday and we can never really find anything to do so we usually just watch movies either at our houses or at the theaters. It's really starting to bore us and I was wondering if anyone had some good ideas. One other thing we do is go exploring, like walking around in the woods and stuff if that helps with any ideas. I'm 17 and he's 18 by the way.
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he is cheating!!....do i leave him?
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 9:05 pm
ok so i have been dating this guy named matthew for about nine months and we have been through alot together....my family recently just fell apart and i got sent to treatment foster care to work on stress and how to relate to a family positively so his mom is going into training to get as licesence for foster care so she can have me in her home i really love his family and i have become so attached to them his neice and nephew call me auntie and everything......anyway i found out last night that he was cheating on me i really love him and it kills me inside to know i cant be there when he wants me to but i dont know what to do if i leave him i have no where to go and his mom would just be wasting her time i dont want to let her down.....i really need help im so lost female/16
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So Confused
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 8:18 pm
Okay, so i've been friends with this guy for over 2 years. We've both liked each other. He cares about me more, which is sad to say. I always find myself going up and down on whether i like him. Its like when i'm with him, i don't like him, but when i'm away from him i miss him so much. Also my parents won't allow me to go out with him. It's sad but i like his personality, but not so much his looks. I know its shallow, but honestly i just want to find a person that has a great personality and amazing looks. I've told this guy a numerous amount of times i won't go out with him, and we get into big fights, then we get close again. I'm just very confused when it comes to him. We've been through a lot, but i honestly think i deserve better...What should i do?
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liking someone who doesn't like you.
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 7:12 pm
ok well im 15 and a girl. and over the years that i have been growing up i have been at my grandparents house in indiana. and i live in illinois. i love it there. and my grandma one day told me about this kid who was moving in next door to her. he was the same age as me. he is a nice guy and he introduced me to his friend casey. hes a guy. and this was like 2 years ago. and i really thought he was cute and stuff. but my friend who was out there with me at the time liked him and they ended up like dating for like a day. ha which it didn\'t work out considering the different states we live in. but we left and every once in a while i would talk to casey on myspace and i always had this crush. but just about a month ago he ended up giving me hi...
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Does he?
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 7:03 pm
OK so i know this guy and he's older than me, not by much like a year. So you see both him and i are taken but we can almost never see our partners. Like his girlfriend is younger than me so her parents dont let her date him and my boyfriends parents wont let him date me for religious reasons. So this guy and i have been txting all the time and we do stuff like 'i gotta go do this or that i'll txt you back when i'm done' and we hang out a lot since we live real close to eachother. You see once he was like 'lets hang friday' and i was like 'sure' but then he got invited to go BK with some friends and he wanted me to come with him but i said no, i dont know his friends. so he was like 'i'll come over when i finish here then.' and i was like '...
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Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 3:12 pm
i'm not really asking too much for advice, but more of an opinion and what you think. so heres my story (17f&17m):
i dated this guy for 8 months and we broke up the last week of april...he said he doesn't have the same feelings for me. however, we went to prom together and i was laying on this guy cause i wasn't feeling good and he was off doing his own thing...and he got upset at me for that...we both decided that itd be best for us not to talk until summer starts (which is in like a month from now) then he wants to start hanging out again as friends and he said "if its meant to be, it'll be". we started going out during the summer of last year and i was thinking of doing something cute when we hang out to real...
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what to do?
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 2:36 pm
I'm a girl,16.
Ok so I sorted out the last problem,thank you very much for all your help.
Now though,I like this guy. The guy I've liked for well..years.
I REALLY likie him,the first guy I have liked this much in fact. I dunno if he likes me or not, he used to. We kissed a few months back,but it was his first kiss so afterwards,nothing else happened I guess cos he was too shy to initiate anything and I didn't wanna push him into anything he wasn't ready for so neither did I.
I haven't a clue if he still likes me,but I like him as much as I ever did. For the past while,I've been considering telling him that I still do,but we talk the whole time and hang out quite a lot (We go to the same school so we see each othe...
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guyy
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 1:40 pm
Alright, so last summer I went out with this guy, and hes like a druggie, well i liked him. and he said he'd stop smoking for me. Well then he shows up to hang out with me high. This made me mad, sort of like telling me i'm worthless to him. Well, I wouldn't have been mad if he hadn't had said he wouldn't smoke for me. Well, we broke up like a week later over this and a bunch of other stuff. Well my friend hangs out with his friends and oneday he was there. She asked about me, and she asked him if he liked me, and he smiled and looked away, and later talked about getting back together with me. Well I reallyyy don't like the fact that he smokes. and I do like him, because hes really hot and funny and sweet. Well he started talking to me agia...
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boy - friend
Posted Saturday May 16 2009, 12:41 pm
There is this guy I’ve been with for almost two years now, and our relationship has been kind of bumpy… We’re very different from each other, until we come across these little things that remind us both how similar we are… But anyway, the differences between us have started some very big fights and we have been fighting since six months into our relationship. About a year into our relationship, he broke it off because he said we fought too much and because we were so different… That crushed me, but things started to build up again, and before we knew it, we were celebrating our second valentines day together again. I’m in love with him, crazy about him, and I thought things were starting to improve between us, But this past F...
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I should protect the truth and hurt more ??
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 11:20 pm
This is so complicated and BAD!!!
Well i live in ______, i havnt dated anyone for 1 year 5 months and 16 days, yes i have been counting and i hate dating, i don't think i should date if it's not going to be worth it, and i love being single.
Until this guy who blew my mind away, very good looking *drools* now here is the problem that i believe i cannot solve but i need help to get over it.
Well it all started the day i had a fight with my sister's boyfriend or fiance now. Well my sister did something and i told my sister's boyfriend (S)' bestfriend (B) who is also my bestfriend (B is a guy and im a girl), So B was extremely drunk and YES accidently (i trust B badly) told S, so my sister was mad, and bec...
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Basic
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 8:08 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years and he has decieded to join the army and left for basic about a week ago! I was really upset about it i am use to talking and seeing him everyday it have been a large adjustment but i think we can make it through. I just want to know what i can do to make it easier on him because as much as i miss him he has to bee missing me more! I want to let him know i support him and truely care I dont know what would engourge him and re affrim how much i truely love him! i will greatly appreciate any advice
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Posted Friday May 15 2009, 6:12 pm
Ok this might be long but last year i liked this guy and he had gf but i couldnt help myself.So when he found i liked him he started flirting with me and i was head over heels for him and when his gf found outi liked him she freaked out and started talking behind my back and all her friends hated me too but in front of my friends she was all nice and polite.And then like 2 weeks after he had to leave to go to another school he said i was acting like his girlfriend and i wouldnt leave him alone.So now 11 months later im here and i cant let him go .next year i have to go to the same school he went to and then i have to see him everyday.ive tried everything to let him go but i cant. plz help me
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racist parents!
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 5:04 pm
hello, im 15 f, and im cuban.
my boyfriend is 18 black and mexican.
heres the thing, my parents just recently found out that me and him are dating, and they fliped out. they say im nasty for liking a black guy, and that im only putting myself down and that im too pretty and light skined for him and etc.. i really dont know what to do cause i like him alot and i dont want to loose him over something so dumb like his skin color. and he isnt even that dark! hes like chris brown dark. and he dresses very nice, and is a good kid. i have to talk to my parents today. how can i convince them to let me be with him? oh and my dad was saying things like what would people think? and how it looks bad for someone whos white to be with someone whos black.
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wife
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 4:51 pm
I'm running into some hard times in my life. I fell in love with my wife pretty much at first sight. The problem was that I didn't have a lot of experience with relationships. I didn't do things properly and I let my family get to much of a say in our relationship. They didn't like her from the very beginning and didn't even try to be nice to her. My mistake was that I didn't stand up for her like I should have. which led to a lot of problems between us. we started fighting and have split up multiple times. we now have 2 children but we recently split up again. when we split up I was devastated but instead of just being hurt I took out that hurt on her. I called all sorts of names and refused to talk to her for a while. but we recently star...
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Weird?
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 11:42 am
Well im not sure why but i like this kid that is 13, im am 15 will be 16 in june. He doesnt act like he is this young and is really sweet. Is it bad that i like him??? what should i do?? Plus if anyone finds out do you think that i would have a bad rep at my high school??
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im in love with my best friend and she sees me as a brother
Posted Friday May 15 2009, 10:58 am
i am in love with my best friend and she sees me as a brother and i want to be more than that and my other best friend told her that i liked her and she asked me if it were true i told her i didnt want to talk about it since she had a boyfriend which was my best friend who told her i liked her. ive asked her out and she says she sees me as a brother that shes never had and i dont know what to do she tries to kiss me every once in a while and our friends have told us once to kiss and get it over with.but she sees me as a brother so what do i do. i am 19 and a male
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