ok well im 15 and a girl. and over the years that i have been growing up i have been at my grandparents house in indiana. and i live in illinois. i love it there. and my grandma one day told me about this kid who was moving in next door to her. he was the same age as me. he is a nice guy and he introduced me to his friend casey. hes a guy. and this was like 2 years ago. and i really thought he was cute and stuff. but my friend who was out there with me at the time liked him and they ended up like dating for like a day. ha which it didn\'t work out considering the different states we live in. but we left and every once in a while i would talk to casey on myspace and i always had this crush. but just about a month ago he ended up giving me his number and ever since we just hit it off. and we talked on the phone every night for a month. and we were just so into each other. but then like 2 weeks ago i went down to my grandpas house in indiana and we hung out. and he was just so amazing. and we ended up just cuddling on the ground and we ended up kissing. and it was my firstt kiss and he knew it too. but it was just a perfect moment. and then the next day, sunday, we had to go and he couldn\'t come and say bye because he had to help with his dad. and the whole day he just seemed weird. and that night he ended up telling me that we just weren't going to workout because of distance. and i just completely broke down. he was my first kiss and it ment so much too me. and he new that we lived in different states going into this. and he kissed me anyways. and i just haven\'t talked to him for awhile. and all i can do is think about him. but its getting better. but he was my first kiss and i know i will never forget him. which sucks. because he was so perfect.... what should i do?! heart breaks are so difficult.
JustJessOx answered Saturday May 16 2009, 10:16 pm: Awh I know this situation totally sucks. but aleast you will always be able to remember your first kiss as a really special one with someone you cared about alot.
I know it hurts alot now but it will get easier with time and no doubt youl find someone just as nice nearer to you although to you it probably doesnt feel that way now but it will get better trust me your still trying to get over him.
its good that you wont forget him in a way because you can always look back and have something to smile about.
im afraid thats really all i can tell you =[
just keep your chin up and take each day as it comes and it will ease eventually focus on other things in your life.
hope everything works out for you and that i helped even in the slightest.
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