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So Confused
Okay, so i've been friends with this guy for over 2 years. We've both liked each other. He cares about me more, which is sad to say. I always find myself going up and down on whether i like him. Its like when i'm with him, i don't like him, but when i'm away from him i miss him so much. Also my parents won't allow me to go out with him. It's sad but i like his personality, but not so much his looks. I know its shallow, but honestly i just want to find a person that has a great personality and amazing looks. I've told this guy a numerous amount of times i won't go out with him, and we get into big fights, then we get close again. I'm just very confused when it comes to him. We've been through a lot, but i honestly think i deserve better...What should i do?
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Honestly? If you truly care for him, then just push through the pain! Everyone goes through this, but, i think you just need to realize everyone is imperfect. no one is going to be drop dead gorgeous and have a matching personality.
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wow im in the EXACT same situation as you!
its like he has such an amazing personality and you know he would probably do anything for you but its just that attractiveness missing thats holding you back right?
i cant give you much advice because im honestly at a loss as of what to do myself im just tryna go with the flow and see what happens but im here if you need someone to relate to because i understand completely.
i often beat myself up over it because i know
looks arent everything though and its hard to find someone with both...but there has to be some kind of appeal to someone.
anywho sorry im rambling.. i guess what you should try do is do your best to look past it concentrate on his other amazing qaulites and maybe his personality will just shine through over his looks and he will seem attractive to you.
thats what im trying to do with my friend.
hope it works out for you its nice to know im not the only one in this kind of a situation or who thinks this way =]
i try think of that quote too..
"beauty captures the eyes but personality captures the heart"
i also try to think that nobody stays good looking forever.
hope i helped even in the slightest!
<3 Jess
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