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im in love with my best friend and she sees me as a brother
i am in love with my best friend and she sees me as a brother and i want to be more than that and my other best friend told her that i liked her and she asked me if it were true i told her i didnt want to talk about it since she had a boyfriend which was my best friend who told her i liked her. ive asked her out and she says she sees me as a brother that shes never had and i dont know what to do she tries to kiss me every once in a while and our friends have told us once to kiss and get it over with.but she sees me as a brother so what do i do. i am 19 and a male
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There's nothing you can do to stop making her see you as a brother. You should tell her how you really feel, now that she doesn't have a boyfriend. Tell her once and only once. Be up front and direct with it. Just tell her that she's your best friend and that you've grown to see her as more than that. If she doesn't take the bait or maintains that she only sees you as a brother, you're going to have to be happy with just that. Be happy that she's in your life and keep your mind open to other relationships.
If you keep bugging her about it after you tell her how you feel, she's going to start feeling uncomfortable and awkward about the whole thing. It could really take a toll on your friendship, so give her space and don't try to keep changing her mind about it.
Darby
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Wow I was just in this situation, but I was like your friend. Honestly, if she sees you as a brother and has a boyfriend, back away and move on. Trying to make a move will make things worse, trust me. And from the girl's point of view, it makes things kind of awkward. In my case, it was my friend that had a girlfriend, and he kept trying to hook up, so I told his girlfriend. She thought that he was cheating on her with me, and neither of them have talked to me since.
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