Well im not sure why but i like this kid that is 13, im am 15 will be 16 in june. He doesnt act like he is this young and is really sweet. Is it bad that i like him??? what should i do?? Plus if anyone finds out do you think that i would have a bad rep at my high school??
sousou1234567 answered Friday May 15 2009, 11:56 pm: Bad, No it's not even close to bad.
Love?Like? All same shit, and age will never matter.
If you think this relationship is worth it and will go on then what you should do is go for it.
And since when people start caring about other's opinion.
If dating this kid would make you happy then you should give a finger to whoever stands in your way, not worry about what's he/she going to say or think.
Darby answered Friday May 15 2009, 7:51 pm: Nah, that's not too bad. He should only be a couple grades under you. When is he turning 14? If he just now turned 13, that would be construed as a little bit odd since he's almost 4 years younger than you. Which isn't a big deal when you're an adult, but when you were 13, you were probably much different than you are as a 16 year old.
But if he's mature and you're happy with him, so be it. It's not much of a difference at all. You shouldn't get a bad reputation for it. If anyone says anything to you about it, simply say, "He's mature for his age and we're happy together." There's not much anyone can really say to debate that. But I very seriously doubt that people would bring it up anyway.
JustJessOx answered Friday May 15 2009, 5:57 pm: No its not bad at all in my opinion.
it annoys me how ages makes such a difference at our age now but its practicly meaningless when people are like 30 or 33.
i was with a 17 year old for a while (im 15 too) then he turned 18 a little while after and he sudenly didnt wanna be involved with me cos he said i was too young!? but he really liked me it didnt make any sense to me at all..it shouldnt matter if you like someone.
i dont think youl get a bad rep as such but there is always gonna be people that will talk and gossip. thats just life how you take it and deal with it is another matter if they wanna talk let em? after all its their time their wasting you shouldnt care what they think =]
your not doing anything bad you cant help who you fall for
anyway thats my advice its your decision though.
hope it works out
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