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Why am I so afraid?


Posted Tuesday November 27 2012, 12:52 pm

Ok so, I am a 22 year old Female, and I have been dating a guy for about 9 months now, and he is my first “Official” boyfriend (my first love) and I have the deepest fear of him either A. Leaving me or B. Cheating on me.
Before having a boyfriend I was ridiculously easy going and optimistic! And now it’s like I believe that he is obviously going to hurt me, as it is said that 35% of people cheat. I never used to be like this. Growing up having an alcoholic mother who accuses absolutely any man she has ever been with, including my father (who has sworn to me he never did.) But they went through a nasty divorce for duration of 10 years; my three sisters and I were all in the middle of it. My mother in the midst of the divorce st...

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My fishes eye doesn't look right... what do I do?


Posted Tuesday November 27 2012, 3:57 am

Something is wrong with my Fishes eye. It has a whitish grey circle on the outside of the eye ball. I have no idea what it is or what to do. Please help!

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trouble trusting boyfriend because of ex boyfriend


Posted Tuesday November 27 2012, 1:35 am

So my current boyfriend is the best boyfriend I have ever had. He treats me like I am his princess and I could never ask for anyone better. but because my ex boyfriend treated me so badly i.e. cheated on me many times, hit me once, made me feel worthless and that no one wants me and just horrible things that i've gotten over and feel better about myself because i know he just did all that to manipulate me to keep me with him. and that's why i kept going back to him, because he was so good at manipulating me. and we've been broken up for a while and i have my new amazing boyfriend that my best friend set me up with. but just because of that past relationship. i'm just a little on edge that it will happen again. i am able to hold it in and th...

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Topics: sometimes we run out if stuff to talk about... any suggestions?


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 11:28 pm

Hey me and my boyfriend text a lot and sometimes we run out if stuff to talk about. We are 14 and just need some good topics. Any ideas?

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My boyfriend is moving to a different school ;(


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 9:40 pm

My boyfriend and I are soo close and have gotten along together like brother and sister but I just found out today from him that he was moving and I got afraid that I would never see him again. What can I do to spend more time with him? What can I do when he's about to leave? How should I kiss him?

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is it better to go to jail for four months and have your record expunged


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 12:07 pm

or not go to jail but still have your record in place?


would it be better for a 22 year old female to serve a four month sentence in county jail then have your record cleaned or not go to jail but have your criminal record in place? Both cases you have to pay restitution and probation. What is the better thing to do here? Is jail as bad as TV makes it look? Would four months in jail be worth it?

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Why dont i feel i deserve to be happy?


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 9:06 am

and self sabotage literally everything? I'm 18 and I don't want to live the rest of my life like this. But at the same time, I don't feel like I deserve all my big dreams and thus don't put work into getting them, and just end up in this rut. growing up I was pretty lonely and had no close friends at school, especially my last 2 years of high school, which were hell because of the "isolation" or "rejection", whatever you'd call it, worsened because my family moved to a different state, halfway across the country. I just can't seem to get over my frustrations about the past, and how my high school experience was the last thing I expected to happen. no wild parties, no boyfriends (never been asked out, but I've crushed on ...

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don't knw how to deal wit it....i am a girl from india.


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 6:33 am

i am a girl from india. i am 18 years old n i am deeply in love with a guy.....n even he does. Bt he is in a wrong thought that i am flirtng with him and will leave him. But the truth is that i love him very much and wanna be with him. he is not believing me at all...which is making me upset and i am not in a condition to think whats wrong n whats right.. If he breakup with me i myself dont know what i'll do...that very moment......

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I said: "I Love You" ... but I didn't mean it.


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 5:41 am

Long story short...
Been dating a guy since September. Made it "official" the beginning of this month. After a few beers tonight, we were in his bed and he told me he loved me. I know it wasn't to get laid because that happened before we were even dating. So i'm thinking it was mostly because of the alcohol tonight. I did say it back, i think i messed up there because I do like him a lot but not on that level. I am about to sound dumb as hell for asking this but What could I say to apologize for not meaning it?

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why dont i feel i deserve to be happy?


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 3:47 am

























<a href=http://download.cnet.com/YouTube-To-MP3/3000-2071_4-75810474.html >link</a>and self sabotage literally everything? I'm 18 and I don't want to live the rest of my life like this. But at the same time, I don't feel like I deserve all my big dreams and thus don't put work into getting them, and just end up in this rut. growing up I was pretty lonely and had no close friends at school, especially my last 2 years of high school, which were hell because of the "isolation" or "rejection", whatever you'd call it, worsen...

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Step dad is a total dick..


Posted Monday November 26 2012, 12:15 am

M/17
My mom was 16 when she had me. My dad didn't think it was his so he moved and only comes by on occasion. But my mom met a guy 3 years later at a party and has been with him ever since. I was quite a brat when I was younger so he broke up with my mom because of me a few times. But after a while the only way he disciplined me was by beating me. Since I was still young I figured that everyone got beat like I did. So once I started getting older and into school, I started going into school with a new bruise on my face, I had to blame it on this sport...wrestling. This sport has ruined my life. I have no social life, barely any other life than this. My life revolves around this sport. When I was a young wrestler, my mom would video t...

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How do I get him out of this funk?


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 11:55 pm

Okay so long story short, my boyfriend of almost two years has been depressed for about a year. I helped him get into therapy and realize that his depression wasn't his fault, the whole chemical reaction in the brain thing, and hes been definitely making progress. The problem is, I think hes using his depression as an excuse to not do anything.

Part of it is he feels stuck in his current job, but he wont do anything about it. He calls me and tell me he feels depressed, wants more money, is worried about his future (hes only 21 and in college) etc etc but he wont do anything about it and no matter how much support/advice I give him it wont help. He is just afraid to fail I think. But what can I do to get him out of this funk? What can I say to him?

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Rekindle a flame


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 10:22 pm

Okay so I had a falling out with this guy I had been seeing for about a month. Basically I said some things I shouldn't have and I hurt him. I apologized a lot because I had been drinking when I said what I did and it was totally uncharacteristic of me and it was not said in the way I wanted it to be said. Anyways, we live in different states and text every once in a blue moon. I really want to try and rekindle what we had. He says that what happen is just water under the bridge. I'm visiting friends in January that live close to him, I'm considering calling him up to see if he'd meet us out at the bar or if he'd want to get coffee or something. Any ideas on how to try to talk to him more without being annoying? I just miss him and I was an idiot. Thanks.

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horses: i dont know what to do i reaally want a horse


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 10:17 pm

mkay im a13yr old girl.i want a horse thats older and good with kids! but dad said no because we dont have the money! i dont know what to do i reaally want a horse

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Long Distance issues


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 9:46 pm

I am a 17 year old girl in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart of 2 1/2 years. He started college in Berkeley this August. We went into an open relationship, which both of us are totally fine with. We get to see each other once or twice a month when I go to visit him and those are the best weekends of my entire month.

However, the phone calls are lacking. I'm always the one calling him and I seem to leave every conversation feeling disappointed. What should I do? I'm scared to talk to him about it because I hate arguing over the phone. everything seems perfect but this one little part.

I generally end up doing all the talking and if I ask questions about his life I get one word answers. ...

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New camera advice


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 8:35 pm

Hi, im 12, almost 13, and I really want a new camera for Xmas, but I want to know exactly what kind to ask for. I want one that has great focus, is easy to use, has a really good zoom lense, and is just a really great camera. but, i have had past cameras that when you zoom in, the more you zooom in, the more blury it gets. i realize that this is normal, but i would love to be able to avoid it. i have seen cameras that you can zoom in to (example) the stage at a concert from the back row, and its still perfect (or still really good) quality. anybody have anything that would be good for me? links of where to get would be great. thank you!! :)

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Breaking up: I can't get the words out. I need help, and I don't know what to do.


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 7:37 pm

I've been planning to break up with my boyfriends for months now and I feel so awful that I haven't done it yet, but I am severely shy, even after having dated him for a year. I just feel that there's nothing in this relationship beneficial to us. I feel awkward as well that he keeps buying me things and it makes me feel even worse about having to break up with him, but I really am not happy with this relationship. I wouldn't mind being friends with him still, but in a relationship? It's not working. I don't want to break up with him over Facebook because I know people hate that, but whenever we get together in person, I can't. I choke on my words and can't even force myself to speak half the time. I really need help. I don't know what to do now.

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Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 2:56 pm

If i've never had sex and one day I decide to have sex with a virgin could i catch genital warts?

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Am I a bad person


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 12:12 pm

So my boyfriends family hates me.
Why:
1. He always comes home late because of me. He is 21 and his curfew is ten p.m.
2. I didn't call 911 on time when he got assaulted. Which I dont blame them for because I should have called emmediately.
3. He blames me for his assault. He said I planned it. The day it happened we were at a house party and I felt uncomfortable because everyone was drinking, smoking,thats not my scene. So I went outside and he got mad at me because I was ruining the party. But he stayed out the re with.me and then some guys who were looking for someone to fight come out of nowhere start drama and out of nowhere someone throws a punch.
sonhis
So the family hates me and thinks I'...

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im worried ive lost my virginity


Posted Sunday November 25 2012, 11:50 am

I am a 13 yr old girl from australia. I was masturbating and i put an empty deoderent bottle in my vagina to give me pleasure and when i took it out there was blood on it i was so scared that i thought i lost my virginity please help me i dont wanna tell my dad anything. I dont know if it was my period or not but please help me i need advice

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