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So upset.


Posted Tuesday May 26 2009, 12:37 am

First off, I'm in a long distance relationship. Yesterday was my boyfriend's birthday, and I didn't talk to him at all. He went out with friends, and didn't get back til real late, so okay whatever. Today he left a voicemail saying to call him at 7. I did, and he was sleeping. He got up at about 11, so we talked for a good 5 minutes..uhhh. I could tell he was on xbox, so I told him to go play with his buddies and we'd talk tomorrow. He happily left.

Now, I truly don't mind him going to play, I suggested it..but this happens everyday now. This has happened for the past 3 weeks, and I just don''t have the heart to tell him how much it hurts me. I wait literally all day long to speak to him, and when the chance finally comes, ...

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is the relationship really over?


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 11:07 pm

First off, I am a 22 year old male. I was in a 5 year relationship with the love of my life. We have two children together, which in hindsight was way too early, but hey. She left me two months ago, for which she said I didn't pay enough attention to her, which was valid. However, since then, she has continued to speak to me, and every day is different. One day, she says she just needs a little time but I am the most important man in her life. The next, she says she is completely done. What the heck!? She tells me to treat her with respect and show her that I can give her some attention, and she'll come home. However, she is out living the life of a single 20 year old. Clubs, talking to guys, the whole 9, and it's difficult to give her the ...

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best friend.....ex girlfriend


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 11:01 pm

17/male

ok so basicly heres the short version. i was goin out with this girl for goin on 2 months or so. we had previously dated before. her 2 standards in a guy is he has a job. and be in school.(still in high school)so i fullfilled those till i got kicked out of school for skipping. i was only kicked out for 5 days. so basicly, she breaks up with me. then starts goin out with my best friend. 3 days later or so. and my best friend KNEW i still loved her. and i was STILL goin try to get back with her when i got back. so now its been 2 friggin weeks, they're now having sex, and oral sex. best friend tells me all this. i mean i still love her, and can't realy get over the fact that she did that to me. and can't get over the fac...

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TEXT


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 1:39 pm

what is a cute or funny text to send to a teen guy that will make him smile or laugh?

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Texting - Guys this is for you!


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 1:39 pm

15/f

If you get a text from a girl you have a thing with what would put a smile on your face? not something to forward but just in general that was cute but not to much. ( as in your have a thing but its not public or completly there yet so you don't want to go to far )!

What kind of text would make you laugh from a girl or just make you go heals over head.

In general whats a sweet text to get from any girl or a text to make you laugh or smile

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Man of My Dreams.


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 1:13 pm

15/f

So theres this boy i've been off and on with having a crush this whole year. We went to one school dance together and it was amazing and we'd both probably agree it was the best dance together of the year. He's been through alot this year and i've always been there for him and he appreciates it alot. He feels as if i'm the only one he can talk to about anything and were just really close in some aspects. We text just about everyday about anything and everything and we talk at our lockers every hour.

He told one of my friends he really wanted to "get to know me more" after the dance. and now that were getting closer and all where does this lead to?

Anyways i've really fallen for him...

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when is the time right?


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 11:15 am

ok i met this girl about a month ago and she's really cool we talk everyday and we really want to hang out with each other i think i might like her but her last break up was really bad and she's pretty like i'm done with guys but i'm willing to wait but how will i know when the time is right?

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My Girlfriend lied everything about her


Posted Monday May 25 2009, 7:33 am

I met her when I was in my first job... I liked her..she was 4 year elder to me, though it was not a problem, initially we both were friends and then she changed her job and moved to a place where her family was residing.... after a year I also got a job near that place and I went to her home.. it was friendly environment at her home.. and then I realized that I loved her, so told her about my feeling... she responded positively...
I shared everything about me with her and she did the same... but in between she suddenly reduced communication and one day on her B'day I sent a bouquet to her.. and she was angry ... I didn't got why she did so?
She usually speak about her some colleague in her ...

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am i gonna breakup?


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 11:21 pm

so ive been having a feeling me and my boyfriend are gonna break up because, we're getting into alot of fights about him flirting with other girls. ive caught him about 5 times flirting & ive caught him staring at my 2 friend's (he was staring at their ass) ive heard alot of rumors that he likes 1 of them but he denies it. so idk who to believe my friends or him. so technically i need adive about: is this like signs off us breaking up? im 13 &+ my boyfriend is 14

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How to break the news to them


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 11:19 pm

19/f. So I have this amazing fiance whom I love very much, and the possibility of being pregnant with his kid. We've been together for almost two years, and planning a wedding.

Well like a week ago, we brokeup because we got into a huge argument. He broke my heart badly and felt that I should move on. Well I put up an ad on Craigslist about me wanting a relationship. I ended up getting 5 valid responses from guys saying how cute I am and such. Well I got to know them all a little bit. Then suddenly my ex-fiance came around to apoligize and he treated me to the movies, and begged for me back. So I accepted happily.

Now the problem is, I have these 5 guys wanting to go out with me. I don't know how to tell them I...

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boyfriend bother


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 9:21 pm

i went to a house party where i met this lad that i thought was hot.well we started getting with each other&we are now always with each other.he calls me his girlfriend&we class each other as going out&i really like him.but he already has a girlfriend.she dont know about me&that he is cheating on her with me.she is 3 months pregnant& he tells me he isn't going to leave her cause he dont want to lose the baby.i dont know what to do.he says he loves me&doesnt want to lose me but he also doesnt want to lose his girlfriend.am i doing the right thing staying with him being his affair?

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sex


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 4:56 pm

My friend is twelve and she wants to have sex without a condum .She does not have her period and is a virgin.Can she still get pregnant?

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How can i talk to the life guard!


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 3:46 pm

f/16
hi I have been going to this college pool for like 3 years. I take lessons there and i just go and chill when im bored...
well theres this life guard named Robert..He is near perfect and well he used to teach me how to swim.He is really nice and trys to talk to me but im just to danm shy and quiet when im around him.
I don't have a nice body and i look like a hot mess when in the water...
How can i become friends with him and the other life guards without trying to hard to get their attention..They are all like 19 and i really want to have something with Robert..if not a realationship..i would love a friend ship.
How can i talk to him. How can i invite him to hang out with me outside the pool.
...

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an unexpected farewell...hurt and confused


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 2:52 am

i truly liked this guy,"S", from this semester. in the beginning,he was quiet and didn't talk much, but as the semester progressed, he opened up, especially to me, about things like his hobbies, future goals, what he did this weekend and personal stuff.based on his reserved character, i thought b/c he reveals so much of himself to me, he may possibly like me.there are other details too but for the sake of keeping it short i won't write them out. nearing the end of the semester though it gets wierd b/c he asked to study with me alone, and that's when you exchange numbers to coordinate the time better,as well as other advantages *hint* *hint*,and it's an awkward moment and he says "well you have my email,hopefully you'll find m...

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Me & My Boyfriend argue over nothing too much!


Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 12:08 am

We always get in lame arguments over nothing. ALWAYS! I just want us to be closer.....how or what can I/we do to fix this, and get alot stronger? I know we cant be perfect, but we can get pretty close to it....so please help!

if possible, i PREFER EMAIL RESPONSES!

kcothran3530@yahoo.com

please & thank you!
-Kayla<3

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Entertainer <Kind of!!


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 11:45 pm

ok, if you have ever read any other of my questions, you would know the story. I am 15/f. My best friend keeps trying to set me up with guys from he family. I have a crush on her brother and she knows it, but i dont think i will ever find out if he feels the same. (he doesnt know how i feel). My best friends uncle and cousin have already had crushes on me. I will tell u the story of both. My best friends uncle is still in high school, a senior, but he is crazy (literally) he beat his parents then went to jail. after that neither me or my bff spoke or got near him again, but he still likes me. (unfortunately). second, her cousin is my age, almost. he is five months youger than me. i started to fall for him later on too (he was a sweet talker...

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Pregnant but not sure =/


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 11:45 pm

I think i am pregnant and i have only been with this guy for 2 months. We havn't even said I love you to each other. He means the world to me and I can see us together for a long time and so can he but I think I am pregnant and I told him he said it was a good thing and that he would be there for me and the baby, but I am only 16 and he is 17. I dont want his life to go down the drains because of me he had a life planed out and now I screw it up like this. On top of all that I jsut made a huge mistake. I took off my birth controle 2 weeks ago just incase I was pregnant and we had sex again with out a condom. I dont know what to do I am head over heals for him but dont want to rune his life like this.

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Should I?


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 10:56 pm

I recently met this girl online.
She is a sophomore, and i am a senior that graduates in a week. She is about 45 minutes from where i live. we have been texting each other nonstop for the past like three days, and we have sent each other multiple pictures and what not(not nude, just of ourselves). I guess my question's are, if this continues should i like ask her out without meeting her in person, or should i wait to meet her in person?
And how could i convince my parents to let me drive out to meet her(i have never driven to where she lives).

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all alone!


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 10:44 pm

my boyfriend of 2 years and i just recently broke up. i started hooking up with this other gorgeous guy and now that guy is confusing me. i have just realized that i no longer have someone that gives a shit about how my day went. its hard to swallow. haha. i am used to being with this man everyday and i never had to figure out something to do. i miss it. i miss having a someone. a something. what do i do? im already tired of being alone. damn.

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How to take it to the next level?


Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 9:09 pm

There's this guy I kind of like, and we talk from time to time. We're friends but we don't hang out or anything, and I don't have his phone number. I want to talk to him more, but I don't want to come off as creepy, since we just started talking about 2 weeks ago. He's nice to talk to, but I have to start the conversations most of the time. He plays lacrosse at our school and I went to the game today with my friends, but I didn't see him afterwards because we had to leave early. Should I keep dropping little hints like that? How do I get closer to him? School's ending soon so I need this to happen quickly!

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