ok, if you have ever read any other of my questions, you would know the story. I am 15/f. My best friend keeps trying to set me up with guys from he family. I have a crush on her brother and she knows it, but i dont think i will ever find out if he feels the same. (he doesnt know how i feel). My best friends uncle and cousin have already had crushes on me. I will tell u the story of both. My best friends uncle is still in high school, a senior, but he is crazy (literally) he beat his parents then went to jail. after that neither me or my bff spoke or got near him again, but he still likes me. (unfortunately). second, her cousin is my age, almost. he is five months youger than me. i started to fall for him later on too (he was a sweet talker) but since i never told him he went for one of my friends, so im glad i didnt like him a hole lot that it would have hurt me(hes one of those guys that only dates you for three months then breaks up with you, so i said no when he asked me out). (still kind of stung though). Now, getting down to my question, her other cousin is sixteen and he is really cute (i still like her brother though). He is quiet in school and barely messes with any girls, huh, some of the girls havent even heard his voice before (which is unusual because i go to a very small school). each time i go over to her house he always makes fun of me or picks at me in some way, Like one day we were playing outside and he was picking on me. well, i got tired of it and threw a football at his head (i hit it of coarse) and all of a sudden he soaks me with the water hose while im in my white t-shirt. well, my bffs mom made him get me a towel and do u know what he brang me???? a friggin washcloth!!! and then he LAUGHS about it! okay, i do have to admit, it was pretty funny, but still! and he always picks about how much i eat (i dont hold back just because some cute guy is there watching). I am fairly skinny by the way, its not like im fat or anything. so he always has to mess with me in some way but he barely messes with other girls. i even asked my friend if i offended him when i first met him to make him pick on me so much and she said that he just likes to pick on me. so i just wanted to know, does he pick on me because he likes me or because its just fun to do? cause honestly i have no idea.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? heyzx3 answered Sunday May 24 2009, 6:05 pm: often times guys pick on girls when they like them, and to me it sounds like thats what this guy is doing. Teasing girls is common when guys have crushes on them. i dont really know why- i guess to make girls may more attention to them, or hide their true feelings? or maybe its there way of saying they do have feelings on you. but whatever the reason may be guys pick on girls because they like them.
it sounds like this is definately the case, because you said he doesn't do that to other girls.
yeah but it sounds like he definately likes you, and goodluck! and if you have feelings for her bro maybe you might want to have your friend ask him what he thinks about you, leaving out the fact that you like him. you know, like a friendly "hey you guys would look cute together!" or something along those lines haha. it might be best for you to know how he feels, so that you can know whether to move on to this cousin or not.
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