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am i gonna breakup?
so ive been having a feeling me and my boyfriend are gonna break up because, we're getting into alot of fights about him flirting with other girls. ive caught him about 5 times flirting & ive caught him staring at my 2 friend's (he was staring at their ass) ive heard alot of rumors that he likes 1 of them but he denies it. so idk who to believe my friends or him. so technically i need adive about: is this like signs off us breaking up? im 13 &+ my boyfriend is 14
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Breaking up is a decision made between the two of you, ONLY. So if YOU want to end it because so feel like you have had enough of him flirting with other people, because you have caught him, then do so.. It is your choice! Rumors will always be there, and they will either break your relationship or make it stronger. If the two of you, mainly you right now, can fight and ignore the rumors, this will bring you two closer. He probably is just curious and all guys stare at other girls and things like that, whether they are with you or with their friends. Let him know, or just remind him that you don't like him staring at other girls, and flirting with them too. It is your right to not like such things, after all, you are his girlfriend. And about the arguing and fighting, it may just be a bump in your relationship, if you want to make it work and feel that breaking up over such is just not worth it, then smoothen it out TOGETHER. If you feel you just can't do it anymore, then follow your heart, break up with him. Breaking up is your choice. So chose wisely because you won't want to regret it later on.
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It depends how much his flirting bothers you. You've caught him flirting 5 times, is that enough to make you break up with him? If so, then yes, I'm sure you guys will break up. If he's hitting on other girls (especially your friends) that's grounds for a breakup in my eyes. I know if my bf his on my friends I would throw the towel in so fast his head would spin. I definitely don't like guys that are very flirtatious. I don't like it 100% more if he's flirtatious with my friends.
As far as whether or not your friends are lying, why would they? You caught him staring at your friends. So why wouldn't you believe that he likes them? If there's rumors flying, they're probably flying for a reason. Rumors aren't always 100% true, but there's usually some root from which they started that it somewhat true.
If I were you, I would probably get out of this relationship. This guy would be on thin ice with me. If you want to give him one more chance, make sure he knows that he is getting one more chance. Let him know that if you catch him flirting with any more girls, it's over. And make sure you follow through. If he really cares about you, he will comply with no argument.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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