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Work crush
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So, I work with this guy. We've worked together for quite sometime and for the past two or so months I've had a ginormous crush on him. Lately, we've neem flirting more than usual. (E.g., now we play fight in lobby, he puts his arm around my shoulder, he plays with my hair, sticks out his tongue at me, etc.) So, seeing as I'm afraid to tell him I like him.. I don't know what to do. I don't want to jump to conclusions and just assume he likes me. So, I'm looking for another opinion.
That's where you come in.
Please and thanks. :)
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ASK HIM OUT! i mean, what's the worst that can happen, really? Ok, so maybe he says no, but that doesn't mean that he's the only one that you like. There are other fish in the sea, so to speak. If he says yes, make sure you know what the limits are with eachother so you don't go "too far"
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Well, it sounds to me like he likes you. You should try to get his number somehow, if you don't already have it. Mention that you're a texting freak. If he says, "Yeah, me too" say, "We should text sometime." A fairly easy way to get a guys number.
If you get the number, send him a quick text some time. Just 'hey, it's (insert your name here)' or 'sup, it's (name here)' If you make it to where you're available to talk to him any time outside of work, you'll probably get to know him better.
Once you talk to him for a little while outside of work, say something casual like 'I'm really wanting to see (insert movie title here)' That will be a hint to him that he should ask you to go with him. If he says that he wants to see it too, say 'Sweet, we should go together?' It's quick, it's easy and it's hard to deny. It's so casual, it would be weird to say no to that.
Hopefully he'll pick up on some of this while you guys are getting to know each other better via phone. It's great to flirt at work, but even better when you have no customers to tend to. If you already have his number and do text him, then try the 'I really wanna see (movie name)' thing. You just have to be calm and casual about it. It doesn't have to be a huge confession of how much you're into him.
Darby(:
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