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What do I do if he asks me out and when I say no he cries?


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 11:02 am

What happens if he asks me out but im not allowed to and when i tell him he cries?

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Is my relationship being sabotaged?


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:57 am

Your Open Question: Why would my girlfriend plant an earring that isn't hers in our bedroom?

Before you answer with the obvious maybe she didn't or I'm just paranoid. I rummaged through our kitchen garbage and found the matching earring tied up in a bag inside the garbage can. Why did I search for it? Because I wanted to prove my innocence and I knew she was up to something. The question I want to pose is as follows. Is this a manipulation attempt, or she trying to break it off with me?

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My friend is obsessed with a guy who isn't interested+self harms


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:34 am

My friend is obsessed with a guy who isn't interested, like at all. She is really obsessed with him and is always stalking him on fb or counting how many times he blinks in class. She thinks he's in love with her but they font even speak and he has a girl friend. always says how she hates herself and has. Started drinking/taking 5 Panadol at a time and even self harming. I am rely worried about her and I love her to pieces but I have other friends too and I can't spend 24hrs a day telling her she's perfect, that's not fair on them or me. I really want to help her though! I've convinced her to jo to a councillor but it isn't helping...what do I do?!! Age:14 gender:female

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How can I feel more at home at my parents' house?


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:31 am

My husband and I have fallen on hard times and can't afford to keep an apartment, so we've resorted to moving back to my mom and dad's in my old bedroom. There's limited space, and we'll have to share a kitchen. What can I do to make this feel more like home for us?

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Love -v- trust


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:00 am


Hi there
This question is off the back of a bigger dilemma I'm in which I will address at a different time but one thing I need help with right now is the following-(also just for this question I'm going to refer to these two men as guy 1 and guy 2)

Ok guy 1 I love deeply its a love that's got deeper over time he is caring loving fun etc all round great guy, it's had ups and downs like any love does but it is strong, he's never given me any reason to doubt him I trust him and never worry that he would stray. However the one thing that is a concern for me which is sex, I don't mean this to sound shallow in anyway because I do love him dearly but sex is only average, I pleasure him very well he is more than happy...

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Financially Supporting Myself


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 5:34 am

Lately I have been struggling with achieving to financially support myself. I aspire to live on my own or with roommate in a rented apartment. I haven't yet got a job. I applied somewhere where I would make a decent amount to cover expenses but I haven't heard back from them. I believe my resume was good with my credentials. Although I think since I haven't received word from the employer, they must have overlooked me. What should I do to win them over if there's anything? I feel my anxiety kicking in and I feel like giving up all hope. I'm going to apply to some more jobs but I have doubt that a minimum wage job will cover finances. Rent around here can be up to $600 a month. Split in two, $300. All I have is a high school diploma and three past jobs. Any advice?

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do i love this guy?


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 4:20 am

A few years ago one of my friends asked me if I would go out with his friend. I ignored him but then I saw the guy at lunch. When I saw him it felt like everything slowed down. My friend asked me again later that day. Then he said something to another friend that he didn't want to get punched. Do I love him or does he like me? I'm so confused

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Taking friend to court over unpaid bills


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 2:17 am

My boyfriend, Tim, is probably one out of many guys with a caring heart and very considerate person especially to his friend. When we had first met and dating at the time, Tim had just added 2 of his buddies onto his family plan and I had told him at the time that even if they were your friends be prepare to lose some money or lose there friendship. I mean not all people are shady like that but most people can be and knowing his friends, I had no doubt that they were gonna screw him over. Fast forward to 2 years later, late on their payments, always suspending their phone lines, late payment fees, minutes and data overage fees, And now one of the buddies, bob, was planing on moving out of state so at this time the bill went up to $600. Tim ...

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popping your cherry: i tried but i can't get it to break


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 1:37 am

ok so i want to pop my cherry and ive tried eveything but nothig works lol i even tried a bannana which i heard worked for someone else...but i think mines really thick...could that be why? HELP PLEASE! :)

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Please help me! I'm so paranoid about the world ending on the the 21st of this year!


Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 12:39 am

Hi! So I'm a 12 year old girl and I have VERY bad paranoia. Well people say the world is ending on the 21st and I all know you all don't believe it so can you help me believe that it isn't true? Please? I'm about to cry! :(

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How do I deal with someone whom misunderstood me?


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 11:15 pm

I have this best friend, well ex-best friend, but we had many quarrels and fights over little things. Then, we 'broke up' and she started being very mean. She said to others many mean things about me when most of them were not even true! I really want to get back with her but she was just so overboard. I miss the old times. I think we misunderstood some things with each other but she thinks that everything she says is right. Now, some of my close friends are gone too because if the things she said. Some of the things they heard weren't true. I really want to go back to the way it all was. What should I do? Or should I give her up and not be friends? Thanks.

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what to do about a complicated relationship


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 10:24 pm

I am a 29 year old mother of 2 and I'm engaged to a man with his own daughter. We met at work and kept out relationship a secret for almost a year. 3 months into our relationship he started seeing another woman (who was married and preg.) as well. He was sleeping with both of us for 3 months b4 I found out. Then after our relationship was out in the open his daughters mom claims they slept together. He denied it but I believe her. After I moved in he started talking to the married woman again. I moved out but he once again talked me into coming back. He is addicted to the tv doesn't make me feel like I'm very important and I'm not comfortable around him. He never has asked about my past and tells me nothing bout his. Its a totally one sided...

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should I visit and give things to my incarcerated daughter


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 8:46 pm

or is that too enabling or encouraging?


my 22 year old daughter is incarcerated for a year for fraud charges. I am unable to have much sympathy for her about this because she committed a crime even though I never told her it was OK to participate in illegal activities, wasted her education (which was as good as anyone could hope for( , set a bad example for her younger sister, and this is her punishment and maybe it will be a good learning experience and toughen her up.

I wonder if I should visit her. I hear it may take a month to get visits. Is visiting also something that should be encouraged or is it seen as too enabling or encouraging to the person inside. I don't want to give anyone (especially he...

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Help! I need advice.


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 7:18 pm

Okay so my situation is complicated. I work in a retail environment and I have a huge crush on the supervisor of our loss prevention security department. Any relationship would kill both our jobs if anyone found out. I have no idea if this guy even likes me. Other people in my department says that he never comes around when I'm not there, but when I am...he comes around often. when he comes out of his office, he can see my department and its like he is staring at me until he has to go downstairs. he doesn'tlook like he is smiling but I can't tell if its because he has to look serious or another reason. You have to understand that I am a 21 yr old virgin everything and don'tn know what if there is anything I am missing or should be doing. I can't keep a straight face around him.

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Bad Luck. This girl in my class gives me bad luck.


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 4:43 pm

Mkay, so, this girl in my class gives me bad luck. I f I think of her , I instantly get bad luck, like.. failing a subject, constantly dropping stuff, pencils, notebooks, etc. Please help!! by the way, my name is Shannon. Thanks !!

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boyfriend doing steroids


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 3:59 pm

My boyfriend is doing steroids and ever since he's been doing them he's like a different person. I hate it and we always fight. I know couples fight but this is constant everyday fighting. I really can't take this anymore. I've asked him to stop taking them because its affecting us but he won't. Let alone I'm sitting back watching him destroy his body by putting this crap in it. I really can't do this anymore but all he does is tell me to calm down and it's fine and everything, but I know its not. What should I do?

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Sex, blood disorders and pregnancy


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 2:15 pm

I have a blood disorder where I don't clot unless having medication. Doctors said I may not be able to get pregnant when I'm older but I made a mistake a few days ago and did it without protection. A few hours after that I started to bleed but check this morning and nothing was there. I'm scared because I'm only 16 and if I am pregnant I don't know what I'd do. Is there any way to know if I am or not?

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Overdosing on Piriton tablets


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 9:36 am

So I've been feeling like really depressed lately and its really not a fun feeling. I've been taking a lot of piriton tablets lately. I took 5 one day and then another 5 on another day and then I took 8 and I just I can't deal anymore, I want something strongerrrr
I'm 16 and a girl and I know that nobody has a perfect life and that maybe I'm overreacting but my feelings are legit

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i need advice on keeping my marriage together


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 9:14 am

hello..my name is max.i come to seek help because i dont want to loose my wife thats been with me for 17 years.these couple of years have been rough for both of us financially and emotionally.recently me and my wife had a big argument that dint have a good out come of it.there was insecurity issues involved hurtfull words.and things that shoulnt have been said.i left the house for the same exact reason not to argue with her and let things just cool down.its been over 3 weeks and she still doesnt want to work things out.i have how ever apologise multiple times to her and the kids.but when i try to have a regular conversation with her she just attacts me and reminds me of the hurtfull words i said to her...please help me out ...i love my wife and i dont want to loose her...

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Choose Between Two Guys?


Posted Friday December 7 2012, 5:53 am

So I starting seeing this one guy a few months back. Nothing too serious came of it, but we became great friends and hang out whenever we can. The only downfall to this guy is that he rarely has some to spare. He works full time in the military yet is determined, intelligent, funny, loving, has a balanced lifestyle and when we are together he makes me smile alot. Not to mention he loves cooking from scratch/learning about food which I like because I am a chef. Yes, I do want to date him because he is one of those rare/perfect guys that I can connect with. BUt I guess I'm unsure cuz he isn't always going to be there for me, cuz of his job. That is one of the things I look for in a guy; to know that he is reliable and will be there for me whe...

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