My boyfriend is doing steroids and ever since he's been doing them he's like a different person. I hate it and we always fight. I know couples fight but this is constant everyday fighting. I really can't take this anymore. I've asked him to stop taking them because its affecting us but he won't. Let alone I'm sitting back watching him destroy his body by putting this crap in it. I really can't do this anymore but all he does is tell me to calm down and it's fine and everything, but I know its not. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Bobo24 answered Sunday January 13 2013, 1:25 am: Ok so I know what you are going through because I my self was on steroids once not anymore tho . But I know how it can destroy your relationship , steroids is very hard to give up and a specialty if your man has low confidence in himself I never had roid rage with my ex but I did end up fucking my labedo up for a while and that sucked as I couldn't get it up and didn't feel like sex with my ex it caused all sort of drama it got fixed but its not worth it . Tell your man to get a trainer in the gym and do it the natural way or say you run the risk of losing me and fucking your healf because my friend almost died from prop witch is a steroid and there's heaps of shit that can go wrong and not all can be fixed . Give him one last chance to give it up and if he dosnt then he is selfish and not worth staying with . I give it up for my ex and it was the wright thing to do it was hard but I do it and I got myself into boxing and that keeps me just as fit yes you have to work hard and u may never look as good as you did when you was on it but if he wants to stay healthy and keep his girl then he will give it up . Even if you ask him to seek help to give it up it can be hard to just stop cold turkey and if he has started a cycle then he has to Finnish it before he quits as quitting half way through can fuck your testosterone levels and cause all sort of shit like bitch tits .theres also the risk of getting a infection in the muscle from using syringes that fucking sucks I had that as well and I had to go hospital and go on a IV with antibiotics was not nice . Tell him you love him no matter what he looks like and that he dosnt need to do steroids to be big . Guys do it because they insecure and they think bing big is what girls want and people respect you , you just need to let him know that you want him and that you can't deal with the steroids anymore and he has to make. Choice ? [ Bobo24's advice column | Ask Bobo24 A Question ]
VoiceofReason answered Wednesday December 12 2012, 5:52 am: Steroids make dysfunctional sexual partners because they are symptomatic of underlying insecurity, not to mention that they vastly increase the risks of you suffering abuse from one of his "'roid rage" episodes.
Not only that, but some carry side effects that can cause birth defects if you're exposed to them if you decide to procreate with this loser.
Moreover, steroids are controlled substances under federal law, so your boyfriend may end up in the slammer some day if he continues using them. Not to mention the tragic longterm effects of unregulated steroid use such as diminished sperm count and kidney and liver diseases.
Listen, the guy needs drugs to make himself feel whole. This should be a big red flag. Go find yourself another guy who is more secure and confident in himself that he is a natural born man and not one manufactured by Pfizer. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
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