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How do I deal with someone whom misunderstood me?


Question Posted Friday December 7 2012, 11:15 pm

I have this best friend, well ex-best friend, but we had many quarrels and fights over little things. Then, we 'broke up' and she started being very mean. She said to others many mean things about me when most of them were not even true! I really want to get back with her but she was just so overboard. I miss the old times. I think we misunderstood some things with each other but she thinks that everything she says is right. Now, some of my close friends are gone too because if the things she said. Some of the things they heard weren't true. I really want to go back to the way it all was. What should I do? Or should I give her up and not be friends? Thanks.

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kayna answered Sunday December 9 2012, 1:37 am:
Well your mist likely going to have make the first move. Text her or talk to her and say "hey I'm sorry about what happened everything got kinda out of hand I was wondering if me and you can talk about what happened? " I'm sure she will accept your generous apology and want to talk about it. From there just express your feelings. Make sure not to judge, blame, or accuse her. Good luck:)

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