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i found a live action verson of the Lion King that acutally follows the animated verson called the Real Lion King and i was hoping there was one called the Real Aladdin so anyhow how can i get it on youtube so i can watch it any help (link)
Hi, I'm a little confused by your question. Do you want to know how to access YouTube to watch a video called the real Aladdin? &


So I like this guy and I think that he likes me back but I'm 16 and he is 18 about to turn 19. I have never dated an older guy before so I don't know if that is weird or not. We know each other pretty well. I was a freshman and he was a senior last year. He is really cute and nice and I really like him but I don't know if the age difference is weird or not. Is it? (link)
Hi, well think of it like this. You're 16, would you date a guy who is 13? 14? Once you realize that, consider that your maturity level is much different than his . He has 3 more years of life experience than you do. Also, he is an adult, you are a minor. With that being said, he has to be careful about what he says and does to you. Do what you feel is right. Hopefully he is a nice, respectful, gentleman. ,good luck and god bless


how do you give a good first time blowjob???? (link)
When giving oral sex your risking contracting a sexual transmitted disease. If your being pressured to give a blow job then he isn't worth it. A blow job isn't romantic or cute. It's all about him and it's selfish.


I have this best friend, well ex-best friend, but we had many quarrels and fights over little things. Then, we 'broke up' and she started being very mean. She said to others many mean things about me when most of them were not even true! I really want to get back with her but she was just so overboard. I miss the old times. I think we misunderstood some things with each other but she thinks that everything she says is right. Now, some of my close friends are gone too because if the things she said. Some of the things they heard weren't true. I really want to go back to the way it all was. What should I do? Or should I give her up and not be friends? Thanks. (link)
Well your mist likely going to have make the first move. Text her or talk to her and say "hey I'm sorry about what happened everything got kinda out of hand I was wondering if me and you can talk about what happened? " I'm sure she will accept your generous apology and want to talk about it. From there just express your feelings. Make sure not to judge, blame, or accuse her. Good luck:)


ok so i want to pop my cherry and ive tried eveything but nothig works lol i even tried a bannana which i heard worked for someone else...but i think mines really thick...could that be why? HELP PLEASE! :) (link)
Your "cherry " is otherwise known a a hymen. Why do you want to break your own hymen? When you love a boy and you get married to that boy, that's when your Hymen should be broken. It is not natural for a girl to break her own hymen. Your body is a special gift and you have to treat it with respect. Leave your hymen alone.


He never treats me like his girlfriend, he pretty much treats me like his sister. But its like he's a whole different person when he texts me. What should I do? (link)
Are you his girlfriend? Have u made that official together? If so, maybe he's just nervous around you. Guys say a lot of things while texting but fewer things in person sometimes. Just confront him and simply ask why he acts different when around you. His answer may surprise you. It's better to know than to wonder. I'm pretty sure it's just his nerves though:)


Not feeling sorry for myself so don't say it. I'm just tired of my terrible life and I just want it done, sooner the better.I'm 44 and have been in 2 major relationships in my life. One was my x wife, we were married for 22 years, in the end she ran off with a married man. Must have been me why she did it. The 2nd was the love of my life and we did love each other, she lives in Tucson, same as myself.we each had problems as does everyone, working threw our issues together an our own we would work threw together. We liked being together and we did most everything togetherwe loved it . In the end she treated me like a nobody, and seemed to blame me for everything,ok I figured we could work threw this also as we loved each other so much. Nope it was easier to break it off with me and go with someone else. I'm dead inside and my mind needs shut off, I think about her everyday txt with her on occasion. Yes I know ur going to say no contact,but I can't, I want her so much and miss her bad. My family and friends all say screw her and they hate her for how she hurts me. I can't stop thinkingof her/us and want no one but her. It's been a yr now and its the same, for me atleast. I'm done and ready to die. My life is shit and iv given up.
Shut my heart, mind, pain off, I am truly ready. (link)
Please don't say such a thing. Death is not the answer. yes I understand all you want is to be loved, and respected. You're worth that, you deserve better. The problem is you don't feel worthy enough. You are settling for less. You are hurting yourself every time you text her and you know it. You need to know your worth. You seem like a highly intelligent, sweet, caring man. Any good woman would cherish You. Don't give up. Get rid of the negative people in your life. You don't need a woman to be happy. Find your happiness, whatever that may be, and you will find the one. Just find your happiness okay?


i need to know how to get someone interested there is two guys i like and want them to like me back but how ?
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Be yourself! :) that's all that matters. Talk to them, show that you're interested by commenting on their outfit or compliment them. Smile at them, laugh at their jokes. Ask them out . Good luck!:)


i was texting my boyfriend last night, and he texted me so i texting him back, and after i texted him back...he didnt text me back for an hour...i waited and waited but i fell asleep. he texted my bestfriend shortly after(shes our wingwomen) and told her that i was ignoring him, when really i was just asleep, i woke up with 6 new text messages and 2 missed calls, i told him this morning that i wasnt ignoring him and that i fell asleep...he hasnt texted me back and i'm worried...do you think i'm over reacting? (link)
Nooo you're not:) seems to me that he is! Lol . He is being a bit dramatic don't you think? You're boyfriend should be patient with you no matter what. Every woman is worth the wait, even I'd it is a little thing like a text message. He should have simply expressed to you that he was kinda user you didn't reply the next day, but he was Immature by going to your friend about it and ignoring you. So now he is ignoring you trying to teach you a lesson to never fall asleep on him again. Sounds dumb right? It is. He shouldn't be acting that way. All I can say Is wait it out. Hopefully he talks to you again. If not, you'll find a man that treats you with respect and is patient with you no matter what. Good luck !


Any cross country tips ? (link)
Sorry wish I could help, but I don't know anything about that lol, try Google or YouTube videos or books:)


my period date is 1 but not come the period actual date so how to come the period what i do (link)
Eat healthy, make sure you aren't too thin because underweight can cause you not to get your period. And make sure you aren't pregnant.


19/F
First of all thank you for whom is reading this. I go to school part time and just got a new job. I'm trying to figure out myself and just deleted my Facebook because I feel as if it is a distraction. I feel empty, and it's normally when I'm not talking to a guy. I don't know why I feel this way. My last two boyfriends started as one night stands. One lasted a year, the other one two years. I can't seem to take a relationship slow either. Is it just my hormones? I feel like it's wrong to have sex with multiple people but lately I've been wanting to. Most of my friends are guys as well. I use to have an alcoholic problem but I've been a lot better. I just don't understand why I'm so addicted to guys. (link)
You aren't addicted to guys, you are addicted to the feeling of being wanted by a guy. This could have happened by a lack of a father figure in your life. You have to look at the deeper reason why this is happening. What you have to learn is, you should be happy with life even without a man in your life. A man should not be the only thing that makes you happy. Learn to be independent and know that someday the right man will walk into your life and he won't be asking for sex, he will be asking for love. Be confident and strong. Good luck!:)


I'm a girl and I like this other girl at my school. She's a senior and I'm a sophomore. 15(almost 16) to be exact. She's 18. I'm not sure if she's too old for me because I've heard that liking her is a lost cause. (link)
Think of it this way, if it was the other way around. Would you date a girl that was 12? That's 3 years younger than you. You are 3 years younger than her. It is a big difference if you think about it. Do what you feel is right. She is an adult though, you are still a minor. Be careful about the choices you make with her.


Okay, so ive always been this happy , never mean cheerful girl. Sometimes i would even keep stuff to myself & let people step over me.. All of a sudden ive been speaking my mind alot & all of a sudden the friends i usally hang out with are really annoying me. I dont even feel happy anymore. Ive been in a mad/sad kind of weird mood. I've been judgeing people alot. I dont like that. Its like i turned into a whole diffrent person out of the blue. I have so much bottled up in me. I dont feel like i can talk about this to anyone. I dont even feel like i have friends honestly. Sometimes i just feel like crying but i dont because i keep telling myself that theres no reason to cry. What should i do not to feel this way? ): btw im 16 (link)
Aww don't worry. You are 16 you are going through a lot of changes your mind and your view on life is changing. And hormones can change the way you look at things. Just let some time go by and see if anything changes for the better. If not, maybe you should talk to a counselor or someone u trust. Think more positive about life. And all the good things u have going for you.


what if i like wen my cousin makes out with me and really i cannot help it iv already made out with three guys my bf, my fwb, and my cousin help (link)
You may like it but u have to know it is wrong okay? U will find a boy that isn't your cousin someday and he will love you. Just please stop kissing him. It is wrong.


14/f
Does anyone know a Pimp in New York thats looking for hoes. I want be a prostitute, but I cant find a pimp. Please dont judge me. Thanx (link)
Is this a sick joke? Go babysit, mow lawns, clean cars to earn money. Don't sell your body. Why would you want random men taking advantage of you? . Eww


Hi, Im Blake, im 12 years old and i just moved from London to America. When I first got to school my teacher Mr.Rein always smile at me and wink at me.Like a when we read our books, there he is staring at me winking and I wink back. He always cares about me a lot. One time I was really sad and started crying but then Mr.Rein took me out to the hallway, then he made me sit on his lap and gave me a kiss on the forehead. I gave him a big hug then he said everything is all right and ill be here for you.I really like him and he really likes me. Every day when we leave he givs me a hug. I want to know if this is ok because i have feelings for him. Please reply
-Blake
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It is not okay for your teacher to do that to you. Go tell your parent or guardian about this or your teacher is going to jail.


what can i do in order for my mom not to take me to a doctor nd find out if i am a virgin or not? (link)
You're mom is just trying to scare you. There is no way for a doctor to tell if you are a virgin or not. Not every woman is born with a hymen. And a hymen can break during natural occurrences. It's okay.


wat can i do if my cousin wants to have sex with me and i don't get it bacause he says that he likes me and that he wants to have sex with me wat do i do???????? (link)
Tell your parent/guardian. It is not okay for your cousin to want to do that to you! Stay far far away from your cousin


plz tell me that my boyfriend become my life partner or not (link)
Ask yourself that. Ask him that. We do not know:)




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