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how to give a good first blow job
how do you give a good first time blowjob????
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Actually, this is a lot easier than you think.
First, stay relaxed throughout the entire session.
Second, ask the person you're doing it for what they would like you to do. The reason that's important is because everybody is different and likes different sorts of stimulation. Absolutely demand, though, that he be clean down there before you do it. Doing it in the shower is very hot.
Warn the guy, though, to not force you to do anything by grabbing the back of your head or some crap like that and gagging you. Any sexual act is a learned skill. So give yourself time to become good at it. And if your mouth gets tired, you can use your hand on him.
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First we'll have to define 'good'. There are no sense-receptors in your mouth that directly provide sexual stimulation (or brushing your teeth would get you aroused!) so 'good for you' really depends on how much you want to do it. The obvious comparison is, receiving a shiny new i-phone as a present feels good. But watching your boyfriend unwrap a nice glitzy watch you've bought him as a present also makes you feel good. You'll probably find it much more pleasurable if you're feeling nice and horny when you do it, that is after he's been making a fuss of you and making you feel nice and horny first. If you are, and you're really keen on him in all respects, it should make you feel good. For him, well he'll almost certainly enjoy it. There are any number of variations of using your lips, tongue and hands. Too many to list. It's a case of trying things and seeing what works best for the pair of you. Asking which is best is like asking 'which is the best colour in a rainbow?' We all have our favourites. There's a couple of things to keep in mind. Although it's called a blowjob the thing you must NEVER do is close your lips around him and actually BLOW. You can do a bloke proper physical damage if you do and he doesn't immediately stop you. Also, cover your front teeth with your lips, you don't want to give him a sharp nip! You've got to assume that he's going to ejaculate. If the thought's making you nervous you could have a chat and agree that he finishes off outside your mouth at first, until you're a bit more used to the whole experience. Then try letting him come inside your mouth. On the same subject, swallowing semen is completely harmless. But the fact that it won't hurt you doesn't mean you have to. You might like, not mind it or possibly dislike the feel and taste. If you don't like it, either empty your mouth into a tissue, or always have him finish off outside. And DEFINITELY remember that it's not his RIGHT to have oral sex with you AT ALL if you don't enjoy it yourself.
Finally, keep it real with your expectations. If the first attempt isn't as slick and polished as you'd like, don't worry. If you sort of choke a bit, or end up getting a bit splashed or something, try and keep a sense of humour. Laugh it off with him if you can and try again. It's supposed to be FUN, not something to get stressed over. And practice makes perfect. Nuff info? Hope so. See ya!
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When giving oral sex your risking contracting a sexual transmitted disease. If your being pressured to give a blow job then he isn't worth it. A blow job isn't romantic or cute. It's all about him and it's selfish.
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